Malangizo 3 kwa Makolo Mmene Mungakulitsire Mwana Wawo Bwino
Chidziwitso ndi luso lomwe timapeza m'zaka zoyambirira za moyo zimatsimikizira tsogolo lathu. Awa ndiye maziko omwe zonse zomwe tapambana m'moyo wathu ndi ntchito zimamangidwira. Ndizosangalatsa kuti makolo amakono amayesetsa kukulitsa ana awo m'njira iliyonse ndikusamalira mokwanira osati kukula kwa thupi ndi luntha komanso luso lawo la kulenga. Mothandizidwa ndi Ann Nikson, katswiri pa Studocu ndi kholo lozindikira, takonza mndandanda wa malangizo othandiza kwa inu.
1. Musaope kusiya mwana wanu yekha ndikumulola kuti asankhe yekha
nsonga iyi ikugwirizana ndi nthawi yopuma ya mwana. Mukamulola kuti asankhe zoseweretsa zomwe angasewere nazo, jambulani kapena jambulani ndi dongo, werengani kapena kuyimba karaoke, masulani puzzles kapena kumanga nyumba yachifumu ndi njerwa. Ngakhale kuyambira ali wamng’ono, mulole mwana wanu asankhe yekha zimene akufuna kuchita. Osasokoneza mukamawona kuti akukoka lumo kuti adule ma snowflakes, ngakhale pambuyo pake padzakhala kofunika kusonkhanitsa mapepala ang'onoang'ono kuzungulira nyumbayo.
Lamuloli silikunena za chilango. Mwana wanu wamng'ono ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti akhoza kusankha zochita zawo ndipo mudzawathandiza pa chisankho chilichonse, koma udindo wodziyeretsa yekha magalimoto obalalika kapena kujambula ndi maburashi ndi madzi otayika pansi sichinathe.
2. Chepetsani TV ndi masewera pa piritsi kuti achepe
Ngati m'malo mwa ntchito yolenga mwana wanu akudandaula kuti mutsegule zojambula, yesetsani kugwirizanitsa zosangalatsa ndi zothandiza. Mwachitsanzo:
- Konzani kuti mwana wanu ayese kujambula munthu yemwe amamukonda atayang'ana.
- Khazikitsani lamulo la kubwereza mwachidule, komwe ndi kubwereza lingaliro lalikulu la zojambula, nthano, kapena nkhani.
- Mukamaonera pulogalamu ya pa TV, mupatseni ntchito yowonetsera wosewera kapena woimba pamapeto pake.
- Funsani mafunso otsogolera poonera limodzi filimu, kuti mwanayo aphunzire kusanthula zomwe akudziwa.
Kuonjezera apo, siyani m'maso mwa mwana wanu zipangizo zomwe angagwire ntchito ndikupanga chinthu chatsopano ndi manja ake: pulasitiki, mapensulo, ma cubes, zomangamanga.
3. Sewerani masewerawa "Mmene mungapezere njira yopulumukira"
Sewerani masewerawa. Zolingaliridwa momwe mumayikana wina ndi mnzake. Mkhalidwe uliwonse woperekedwa uyenera kukhala ndi vuto kuti lithe. Amene abwere ndi mayankho ambiri adzapeza njira.
Tinene kuti:
Mkhalidwe #1. Mwana akusewera mumsewu ndikudzicheka chala chake. Zoyenera kuchita? Kodi ndi zochita ziti zomwe zidzakhala zofunika kwambiri, ndipo zidzatsatira pambuyo pake? Kodi mungapeze bwanji njira yothanirana ndi vutoli?
Mkhalidwe #2. Muyenera kudziwa kuti ndi nthawi yanji koma mulibe wotchi yanu kapena foni yanu yam'manja. Mutani? Sankhani kuchuluka kwa njira zothetsera vutoli.
Mafunso Ofunsidwa Kawirikawiri
[Mafunso] 1. Kodi ndi njira zina ziti zimene makolo angagwiritse ntchito kulimbikitsa luso la kulenga mwa ana awo, ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani zimenezi zili zofunika kuti akule bwino?
Pofuna kukulitsa luso la kulenga mwa ana awo, makolo angalimbikitse ana awo kusewera momasuka, kupereka mpata wofufuza zinthu ndi kutulukira zinthu, ndiponso kuthandizira chidwi cha mwana wawo. Ndikofunikira pakukula kwa ana chifukwa luso lopanga zinthu limakulitsa luso lotha kuthetsa mavuto, kuganiza mozama, kudziwonetsera okha, komanso kusinthasintha. Imalimbikitsa luso komanso kukonzekera ana ku zovuta zamtsogolo m'dziko lomwe likusintha mofulumira.
2. Kodi makolo angathandize bwanji ana awo kuti athane ndi mavuto amene angakumane nawo, n’kuwalimbikitsa kuyesetsa kuchita zinthu zatsopano?
Makolo angathandize ana kuthana ndi mipiringidzo kapena zovuta popereka malo othandizira komanso osaweruza. Akhoza kulimbikitsa kuyesera, kukondwerera khama ndi kupita patsogolo m'malo mongoyang'ana pa zotsatira, ndikuthandizira mwana wawo kukula maganizo. Kulimbikitsa kulimbikira, kupereka ndemanga zolimbikitsa, ndi kuwonetsa ana ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana ndi malingaliro angawalimbikitsenso kupitiriza kuyesa zinthu zatsopano.
3. Kodi ndi zinthu zina ziti zothandiza kapena masewero olimbitsa thupi amene makolo angachite ndi ana awo kuti awathandize kukhala oganiza bwino komanso anzeru?
Zochitika zomwe zimalimbikitsa kulingalira ndi kulenga zikuphatikizapo zaluso ndi zaluso, nthano, masewero amalingaliro, nyimbo ndi kuvina, kumanga ndi midadada kapena Legos, kufufuza zachilengedwe, ndi masewera othetsa mavuto. Zochitazi zimakhudzana ndi mphamvu zambiri, zimalimbikitsa kuganiza koyambirira, komanso zimalola ana kuyankhula momasuka. Kuphatikizira zinthu zongopeka, sewero, kapena zovuta zothetsa mavuto kungalimbikitsenso luso laukadaulo.
4. Kodi makolo angachite chiyani kuti alimbikitse ana awo kuchita zinthu mwanzeru komanso kuti aziwatsogolera pa moyo wawo?
Kulinganiza chilimbikitso cha kulenga ndi kapangidwe ndi chitsogozo ndikofunikira. Makolo angapereke chimango chothandizira chomwe chimalola kufufuza mkati mwa malire. Kukhazikitsa malire oyenera, kukhazikitsa machitidwe, ndi kupereka chitsogozo pachitetezo ndi malingaliro abwino kumathandiza ana kumvetsetsa kufunikira kwa malamulo ndi malire pomwe akulimbikitsabe luso. Kupanga malire kumatsimikizira kuti ana ali ndi ufulu wofufuza zomwe angathe kuchita pamene akupanga maluso ofunikira pamoyo.
5. Kodi pali milingo kapena kakulidwe kake komwe kuli kofunika kwambiri kukulitsa luso la ana, ndipo ngati ndi choncho, chifukwa chiyani?
Ngakhale kuti luso lopanga zinthu n'lofunika m'magawo onse a chitukuko, ubwana ndi unyamata ndizofunikira kwambiri pakulimbikitsa luso la kulingalira. Muubwana waubwana, ubongo umamvetsera kwambiri zochitika zatsopano, ndipo malingaliro ndi chidwi cha ana zimakhala pachimake. Kulimbikitsa luso pa nthawi ino kumayala maziko olimba a kuganiza mozama kwa moyo wonse. M'zaka zaunyamata, luso lachidziwitso limathandiza achinyamata kuti azidziwonetsera okha, kupanga chidziwitso, ndi kuthetsa mavuto muzochitika zovuta komanso zomwe zikusintha mofulumira. Ikhozanso kukhala gwero la chikhutiro chaumwini ndi kupatsa mphamvu panthawi yovutayi yachitukuko.
Maganizo Final
Chinthu chachikulu pakulera munthu wolenga pang'ono si kusokoneza kulenga. Lemekezani zosankha za mwana wanu, thandizani zokonda zake, ndi chikhumbo cha chitukuko chonse. Mwana wanu akamaona kuti mukhoza kupanga chinachake mwachidwi, amaphunzira bwino pa chitsanzo chanu. Zochita zopanga komanso kuganiza mozama kumakula tikamadziwa bwino zaumwini wathu ndikudzipatsa mwayi.
Limbikitsani Luso la Kuwerenga kwa Mwana Wanu Kudzera mu Pulogalamu!
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