Momwe Mungagwirizanitsire Abale Pamodzi
Kukhala ndi azibale ndi imodzi mwa mphatso zazikulu kwambiri za Mulungu. Mumasewera ndikuchita zinthu limodzi, mumakhala ndi mikangano ndipo pamapeto a tsiku mumayiwala chilichonse. Ubwenzi woterewu sungathe kusweka, koma pokhala kholo, muyenera kuphunzitsa ana anu mmene angasonyezere chikondi ndi khalidwe ndi abale ndi alongo ake. Mwachidule momwe mungapangire abale kuti azigwirizana. Ana amatha kukumana ndi zovuta wina ndi mnzake, ndi momwe mumawathandiza kuthana ndi mavutowo moyenera. Tingathe kuchita zimenezi mwa kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino yochitira limodzi zinthu komanso kusangalala pamodzi. Amatha kumenyana ndi zinthu zazing'ono ndipo chifukwa chake chingakhale chidole chosavuta. Ngakhale abale ndi alongo okondana kwambiri angakhale ndi masiku oipa ndi mikangano. Nazi njira zina zomwe mungathandizire abale kuti azigwirizana komanso kukhala limodzi.
Onetsani Makhalidwe Amene Mukufuna Kuwona Mwa Iwo:
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe makolo angachite ndikukhala chitsanzo cha khalidwe lomwe akufuna kuti nawonso azichita mwa ana awo. Nthawi zambiri ana amatengera makolo awo ndipo amachita zinthu ngati mmene amachitira. Ngati mukufuna kuti ana anu azichita zinthu moyenera, onetsetsani kuti mukusonyeza khalidwe lomwelo. Ngakhale kuti zinthu zina zambiri zimakhudzidwa ndi kukula kwa ana monga aulemu ndi abwino kwa wina ndi mzake, kholo la makolo limakhalabe lokhazikika.
Osafanizira Ana Anu:
Tikamawapanga zinazake nthawi zambiri timanena kuti mwana ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo amachita ntchito zake zonse poganiza kuti nayenso angachite chimodzimodzi. Izi ndi zomwe sitiyenera kuchita. Zinthu zoterozo zimakulitsa mkhalidwe wa nsanje ndi khalidwe loipa. Nenani chilichonse chomwe mukufuna koma osatchula aliyense. Osachita ngakhale mwanjira yabwino.
Pangani Mkhalidwe Wachifundo:
Pangani mipata kuti ana anu akhale okoma mtima ndi kuyamikirana wina ndi mnzake. Yesetsani kuchita zabwino za iwo wina ndi mnzake pafupipafupi. Mungachite zimenezi mwa kukhala ndi buku limene mumatchulamo zinthu zosonyeza kukoma mtima zimene mwana wanu aliyense wamuonapo. Apatseni mwayi woyamikira zochita za wina ndi mnzake komanso kuti ndi abale apachibale. Izi zingakhale zopindulitsa kwambiri pa momwe mungalimbikitsire abale anu kuti azigwirizana.
Pangani Gulu:
Perekani mphotho mwayi uliwonse wopanga mgwirizano pakati pa abale. Yesetsani kupangitsa ana anu kukhala ogwirizana nawo pogwira ntchito zapakhomo kapena kuwapatsa ntchito yomwe ayenera kuchita limodzi. Mungathe kutero mwa kupanga mtsuko woyamikira ndi kuika ndalama pa ntchito iliyonse yopambana. Onani kuti ngati sasonyezana ulemu, aphunzitseni kutero.
Phunzirani Kudziletsa:
Luso lodziletsa ndi njira yothetsera mavuto onse kuphatikizapo nkhani zaukali, kupsa mtima komanso kugwirizana wina ndi mnzake. Phunzitsani ana anu kuti ayime, kuganiza ndi kunena chinachake ndipo mudzawona kusintha kwa maganizo ndi khalidwe lawo. Aloleni iwo athetse mikangano paokha osati inu kutero ndipo muwone momwe amachitira. Inde, muyenera kuwaphunzitsa kaye.
Auzeni Kuti Awononge Nthawi Limodzi:
Kodi ana anu amakonda kusewera limodzi? Kodi mwaona kuti amasangalala kukhala pamodzi kapena ayi? Zinthu izi ziyenera kuwonedwa mukamakula. Auzeni kuti mukufuna kuwona khalidwe labwino mwa iwo ndipo mukufuna kuti azisamalirana. Izi zidzapangitsa kuti azikhala limodzi ndipo mwachibadwa amayamba kukonda abale awo.
Kambiranani zomverera:
Kuphunzitsa ana anu kumvetsetsa maganizo a ena nโkofunika kwambiri ndipo nโkofunika kwambiri kuti azitha kusankha zochita mwanzeru ndi kudziwana. Ayenera kudziwa kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda ndipo ayenera kuzilemekeza. Chosankha chanu sichingakhale chomwe chili patsogolo ngati mungafune. Aphunzitseni kulemekeza zakukhosi ndi kuzifotokoza. Ngati simukonda kalikonse, munganene bwanji mwaulemu kuti malingaliro a munthu wapafupi ndi inu asapweteke.
Lankhulani Zokhudza Ubale Wanu Wekha ndi Abale:
Nthawi zambiri ana amakonda kumvetsera nkhani za mmene munalili ana komanso mmene ubwenzi wanu unalili ndi abale anu. Kumvetsera nkhani zoterezi kudzawapangitsa kuzindikira kufunika kwa ubalewu. Ngakhale ataona kuti mukuchita bwino ndi abale anu, zingakhale zothandiza kwa iwo.
Limbikitsani Luso la Kuwerenga kwa Mwana Wanu Kudzera mu Pulogalamu!
Kuwerenga Kosangalatsa kwa Kumvetsetsa kumathandiza makolo ndi ophunzira kukulitsa luso lowerenga komanso kuyankha mafunso. App iyi ya Chingerezi Yowerengera Kumvetsetsa ili ndi nkhani zabwino kwambiri zomwe ana angawerenge ndikuyankha mafunso okhudzana nawo!