Ungabafundisa njani ngokufanelekileyo abantwana bakho malunga nezezimali kunye nezezimali
Njengomntu omdala, uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuxhasa ngemali kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ibandakanya imali evela ekuthengeni ukutya, iimpahla kunye nokuhlawula amatyala awohlukeneyo enyanga nakuyo yonke into oyenzayo. Namhlanje, unokuqaphela ukuba kunzima kangakanani ngamanye amaxesha ukwahlula imali onayo ngesandla ngokufanelekileyo.
Kwaye ikwenza ucinge, ngaba kuya kwenza umahluko ukuba bebekufundisa indlela yokulawula imali yakho ngempumelelo usemncinci? Ewe, iya kwenza utshintsho olupheleleyo kwindlela obona ngayo kunye nokuxabisa imali. Ukuba unabantwana ecaleni kwakho, qalisa ukubafundisa ekuqondeni iimali kunye neemali ngokukhawuleza. Apha ngezantsi kukho iingcamango zokufundisa onokuzisebenzisa.
1. Ubugcisa Bomonde
Kuyinto engenakuphikiswa, ukwazi abantwana, kunzima ukuxhathisa xa becela into, ngokukodwa kuba awufuni ukucaphukisa iimvakalelo zabo. Noko ke, akufanele kube njalo, ngakumbi xa kusenziwa imali. Ukuba uya kuphumelela ekufundiseni abantwana, kufuneka ucinge ngokuqala ngokubaqeqesha ubugcisa bokuhlala nomonde.
Nanini na xa usiya kudederhu lweevenkile okanye kwivenkile ethengisa izinto ezilula uze nomntwana, ixesha elininzi, baya kukhomba ukutya okanye izinto zokudlala abazifunayo. Kunokuba uzithenge, thetha nabo ngolwimi abaluqondayo uze ubaxelele ukuba bazigcinele zona.
Le ngcamango inokuba nzima ukuyiqonda kubantwana, kodwa ngomonde ovela kuwe, unokubabonisa oko kufuneka bafunde. Abantwana bamele bakhumbule ukuba abanakuyifumana yonke into abayifunayo ngaphandle kokuba benza umgudu wokuyifumana.
2. Ixesha Lokuthathwa Kwezigqibo
Esinye sezifundo zobomi ezibalulekileyo ozenzayo kuxa usenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Ukuba umdala, xa kufikwa kwezemali, wena ukubala mortgage, fumanisa ukuba kufuneka uthenge malini ukuze uthenge izakhiwo, izindlu, okanye imihlaba. Kwaye ezi ntlobo zento zifuna ukucinga okunzulu ngakumbi. Nangona abantwana bengekayiqondi le nto okwangoku, unokuhlala uyicacisa ngamagama alula.
Umzekelo, ungasebenzisa imbono ye-3S, emele Ukwabelana, Ukuchitha, kunye nokugcina. Zama oku, nika umntwana wakho imali oya kuthi, kancinci kancinci, umchazele ukuba kusebenza njani ukwenza izigqibo. Suku ngalunye, bavumele bagqibe ukuba yimalini abafuna ukuyichitha nabahlobo, yimalini enokusetyenziselwa izinto zokudlala, nokuba yimalini eshiyekileyo eya kulondolozwa ukuze bayigcine.
Khumbula, ukhona ukukhokela. Ke ngoko, nokuba ucinga ukuba abantwana babeka ngaphezulu kwizinto zabo zokudlala kunabahlobo, bavumele. Kuphephe ukubangxolisa okanye ukubangxolisa. Ngapha koko, isifundo apha kukuba bazimele ekuphatheni imali. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale, unokuvula ingxubusho uze ubuze isizathu sokuba benze into enjalo. Mabaqonde ukuba yintoni na enokonakala.
3. Ukwahlula iWants kwiimfuno
Okuza nomgaqo okhankanywe ngasentla kukugqiba into oyifunayo kunye nento oyifunayo. Isenokuba njalo kunzima kakhulu kubantwana kuba ifuna ukuvezwa kwiimeko ezithile zobomi abangenazo okwangoku. Nangona kunjalo, awunakungahoyi nokuba kuphakathi kwezifundo ezibalulekileyo abanokuzifumana. Unokwazisa ngokukhawuleza esi sihloko ngokulandela la manyathelo angezantsi.
1- Fumana amaphepha amabini kunye neepeni.
2- Myeke ahlale ecaleni kwakho umntwana abeke ipeni namaphepha phezu kwetafile.
3- Bacele ukuba babhale phantsi izinto abazifunayo, nokuba yintoni na.
4- Yenza okufanayo, kodwa uya kubhala phantsi iimfuno ezisisiseko zemihla ngemihla.
5- Zibandakanye kwingxoxo, buza ukuba kutheni ekhethe izinto ezinjalo.
6- Emva kokubhala, thelekisa iimpendulo zakho kwenye.
7-Mbonise into esephepheni lakho, kwaye umvumele ukuba ayibone yonke loo nto.
I-8-Emva koko, ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuchaza ukuba ubeka njani phambili iimfuno kwiimfuno.
Nje ukuba ucinge ukuba bayalufumana olu luvo, zama ukuyandisa ngokongeza ukuba kutheni mabangabekeki iimfuno kuqala. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yindlela owudlulisela ngayo umyalezo emntwaneni. Ukuba unokuba nobuchule, yenza njalo. Benze baphulaphule ngokunonga incoko. Sebenzisa igama lekhathuni abalithandayo kwimifanekiso yokwakheka okanye nantoni na evusa umdla wabo.
4. UThengiso lokuthelekisa
Enye yezinto ezithandwa ngabantwana kukuthenga. Kuya kubakho iintsuku xa uye kudederhu lweevenkile kwaye ucele ukuba ubathengele okuthile. Ukuba unayo uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, ngoko ungakhetha ukubathenga nokuba yintoni na. Kodwa ukuba awukhange uzise imali eyaneleyo kwaye awufuni ukwenza umntwana wakho azive kakubi, cinga ngokukhetha ezinye iindlela.
Umbono ojikeleza uthelekiso lokuthenga uvumela abantwana bakho ukuba babambelele kwimveliso efanayo kodwa babe neempawu ezahlukeneyo. Enye ibiza kakhulu, kwaye enye inexabiso eliphantsi. Ungazama ukuzama le ngcamango ngokusebenzisa la manqaku alandelayo alandelayo, njengoko kuxoxwe ngawo ngezantsi.
- Ukuba abantwana bakho bayakwazi ukufunda, bavumele bafumane iinkcukacha zemveliso.
- Ukuba abakwazi, bafundele yona endaweni yoko.
- Ngelixa uhamba ngeenkcukacha, bala ukuba zingaphi na izinto ezifanayo kwaye uzithelekise neyantlukwano.
- Khangela ixabiso kwakhona kwaye ubone ukuba yeyiphi enexabiso eliphantsi neliphezulu.
- Ukuba ukufana kuyawugqithisa umahluko, unokukhetha eyona mveliso ifikelelekayo ngakumbi kuba ibonelela ngeempawu ezifanayo. Ekuphela kwexesha omele ucinge ngalo elibiza kakhulu xa kukho umahluko obonakalayo kumgangatho.
Xa unikezela ngempumelelo olu vavanyo lungentla, ngoku ungacacisa ngakumbi kubantwana bakho ukuba kutheni kukho imfuneko yokusoloko ukhangela a enye imveliso rhoqo. Yaye olo thelekiso lokuthenga ngumgaqo abangafanele bawulibale, ngakumbi xa ungaphakathi kwisakhiwo sevenkile.
Ukuyishwankathela yonke, iindlela ezininzi ziyafumaneka zokufundisa abantwana bakho ngokulawula imali ngokufanelekileyo. Ezi ngcinga zichazwe ngasentla zizikhokelo onokuthi uzibandakanye ekufundiseni kwakho. Kuba lula ebantwaneni, kwaye akusayi kubakho sizathu sokuba bafumane ubunzima ekuxhaseni ngemali kwixa elizayo xa nabo bekhula bengumntu omdala njengawe.
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