Ndingamnceda njani umntwana wam aphumelele esikolweni
Njengomzali, sifuna umntwana wethu aphumelele esikolweni, kodwa njani? Iimpendulo zibandakanya indibaniselwano yeendlela kunye nobuchule. Ubusazi na ukuba ngootitshala abancedisa abantwana kuphela akwanelanga ukuqhubela phambili isakhono sabo semfundo enempumelelo. Kufuneka uyazi indima yakho njengomzali ufunde ukuba ndingamnceda njani umntwana wam aphumelele esikolweni kodwa ungalibali nokuba ungoyena titshala unempembelelo kumntwana wakho. Njengomzali siyanceda ekuncedeni abantwana baphumelele kwaye kufuneka sikholelwe ukuba izenzo zethu kunye nezinto esizenzayo zibeka impembelelo enkulu ebantwaneni. Enyanisweni, uninzi lwabantwana lukopa kanye oko kwenziwa ngabazali babo. Kuyaziwa ukuba abazali abaxhasa umntwana wabo kunokwenzeka ukuba basebenze kakuhle kwiimviwo kwaye baneenjongo ezicacileyo kunye namabhongo kunabo bangakwenziyo. Qaphela ukuba unganyanzeli umntwana wakho ukuba abambe amabhongo akho angafezekanga. Ukubonisa abantwana bakho indlela oyixabisile ngayo imfundo yindlela abaya kukhetha ngayo kwixa elizayo kuba wonke umntu ufanelwe yinkululeko yokuzikhethela xa kufikwa kwikhondo lomsebenzi njengoko engumthwali wesakhono sakhe. Wonke umfundi, kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi ukuya kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kufuneka abe nenkxaso abayidingayo ukuze baphumelele kubomi besikolo.
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Ukunceda abantwana.
Iminyaka yokuqala yomntwana inomdla kakhulu kwaye ibalulekile. Ubolekisa ukusuka kwixesha lokukhathalela ukuya kwimfundo eyenza kube nzima kuye. Bafunda ubuchule, ukwenza abahlobo abatsha kubantu abangabaziyo, bathobela imiyalelo yabantu abadala ngaphandle kwabazali babo. Inkuthazo evela kubantu abamchaphazelayo imenza aqhube kakuhle kwintlalontle nakwimisebenzi yezemfundo. Esi sizathu sokuba ukunceda abantwana baphumelele kugxininiswe kwaye bakholelwe ukuba ukuqhubeka noko bakufunda esikolweni kunyanzelekile. Ikhefu esikolweni asikokubaleka ekufundeni. Unokukwenza oko ezonwabisa, ekhayeni lakhe okanye ekunye nabahlobo bakhe. Menze abe noxanduva njengoko eyedwa ebeza kuthatha izigqibo zobomi bakhe kwixesha elizayo kwaye ukuba awukho serious naye, ungothuki xa engenzi njalo! Oko akuthethi ukuba ufanele ukuba ufumana i-A* okanye abe nesikhundla. Ukusebenza nzima kuya kuba ileli yakhe ekhokelela empumelelweni nakwimfundo enempumelelo.
Xhasa Umntwana Wakho Ngobuchule:
Mhlawumbi ngumsebenzi wakho ukuzoba umsebenzi womntwana wakho uwedwa ngokwenza ubudlelwane obuqinileyo nootitshala. Thatha amanyathelo phambi kokuba kuhambe kakhulu, sebenzela ubuthathaka bakhe kwaye wazi ngamandla akhe, mxelele ukuba 'Ndiyakuxhasa'. Oku akunakwenzeka ukuba kube sisenzo sokusebenza ngaphandle konxibelelwano lwabazali kunye notitshala. Guqula imicimbi yabo yemihla ngemihla ibe ngamathuba okufunda. Nika inkuthazo ethile kumntwana wakho ngaphambi kovavanyo kwaye ubone ukuba ithatha phi.
Xhasa umntwana wakho ngokweziFundo:
ndingamnceda njani umntwana wam aphumelele esikolweni? Kufuneka uyazi into eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho eklasini kwaye akukho nto imbi ukugcina unxibelelwano nootitshala bakhe ukubeka iliso kwinkqubela yakhe. Buza utitshala wakhe ukuba akaqhubi kakuhle na kwizifundo, kwimisebenzi yekharityhulam, ekufundeni okanye nangawuphi na umbandela kwaye uzame ukujolisa ugqaliselo lwakho kuwo ngakumbi. Ukuba umntwana wakho unamandla kulo naluphi na ulwimi oluthile, thetha nesikolo malunga nokuhlala naye ngaloo ndlela njengoko akufanele kubekho naluphi na unxibelelwano phakathi kwezi zibini. Ootitshala abaninzi bathi abazazi kwaneengxaki umntwana ajamelana nazo ekhayeni lakhe. Ungalibali ukudlala indima yakho ekhaya, ootitshala banokujonga kuye esikolweni kodwa ekhaya, ungumfundisi-ntsapho. Mqinisekise ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukugqiba umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo wasekhaya ngokuzibandakanya naye. Ukuba ucinga ukuba akunalwazi ngawo nawuphi na umbandela othile kwaye akuyi kuba nako ukumnceda ngawo, menze ahlale nabantakwenu abadala okanye uyise.
Zibandakanye neSikolo soMntwana wakho:
Yiba nombono waso sonke isaziso asifumanayo esikolweni, ukuba kunokwenzeka sicele ukuba sibe ngolwimi lwakho lweenkobe. Mkhuthaze ukuba athathe inxaxheba kuwo wonke umsebenzi nokuba unxulumene nomculo, ubugcisa okanye inzululwazi kwaye umncedise kuwo. Imfundo ayipheleli nje ekusombululeni iingxaki okanye ukufunda. Ukufunda ngokuzonwabisa ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi nako kunokumenza afunde. Gcina iliso kuzo zonke iziganeko ezenzeka esikolweni sakhe ngonyaka kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho uthatha inxaxheba okanye hayi. Mkhuthaze ngezinto azifumeneyo kwaye uthethe ngezinto anomdla kuzo. Gcina umkhondo weerekhodi zakhe unyaka wonke. Joyina iqela labazali notitshala, thatha inxaxheba kunye naye kwaye umenze azive enomdla kwisikolo sakhe. Kwakhona qinisekisa ukuba ngaba ootitshala bayazazi izibakala kunye nokungaqiniseki kobuntu bakhe.
Phucula ukufunda komntwana wakho eKhaya:
Fumana iindlela zokwenza ukufunda kube mnandi kumntwana wakho. Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba yeyiphi indima ebalulekileyo edlalwa yimfundo ekuzinziseni isikhundla eluntwini ngendlela eyakhayo kwaye nawe uyazi ukuba uzabalazela ukufumana iingcebiso zokuba ndingamnceda njani umntwana wam aphumelele esikolweni. Bonisa isimo sengqondo esikhuthazayo ngemfundo ukomeleza ukuzithemba kwabo nokwazisa umdla. Yenza ukufunda kube ngumkhwa wakhe ngokwenza oko akufumana kunomdla kwaye enze okuninzi ngokufunda ngokufumanisa. Mmisele ukubaluleka kwethala leencwadi kwaye umphembelele malunga nendlela ukufunda okunokumenza ngayo abe ngumfundi olungileyo kwaye umncede kwizigqibo zobomi bakhe kamva. Ukuba kunokwenzeka menzele itshathi yokulawula ixesha lakhe kumsebenzi ngamnye kwaye ugcine iliso lokuba lingakanani ixesha alichitha kwi-intanethi, imidlalo yevidiyo kunye nokubukela iTV. Ungaze wenze ukufunda kuphelele esikolweni okanye kwithala leencwadi. Thetha nomntwana wakho kwaye umvumele athethe. Mvumele abelane ngeemvakalelo zakhe aze ancokole ngayo kuba ngamanye amaxesha, umphulaphuli olungileyo yinto afanele ukuba yiyo.
Landela usetyenziso lwakhe lwe-intanethi:
Oku kufuneka kunikezelwe njengoko i-intanethi yenye yezona zinto ziphambili ebomini bethu kule mihla. Olu luqalo lunokuthi xa lungavunyelwanga luthathe umntwana wakho kude ngasemva kwabanye oogxa kananjalo ukungajongi liso kunokwenza ukuba sibe sisixhobo sokwenzakalisa ukuba sisetyenziswe gwenxa. Ungahlala nabo kwaye ukhokele kuyo. Zithintele kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo kwaye ugcine uqwalaselo olungqongqo kuyo. Makayazi into ocinga ukuba ayifanelekanga kwaye ayimlungelanga. Ungasebenzisa izihluzi ukuvala umxholo othile oza kufikeleleka. Okona kubalulekileyo, khangela ixesha alichitha kuyo.
Ukuqala namhlanje:
Unexhala malunga nendlela yokulandela onke amanyathelo ngaxeshanye? kwaye ndingamnceda njani umntwana wam aphumelele esikolweni? Kulungile, unokuhlala uqala ngento encinci kwaye ukhumbule ukuba akwanelanga ukuhamba. Akukho mntu uthanda ukusebenza ngalo lonke ixesha, nditsho nawe, nditsho nomntwana wakho. Eli nqaku liyafikeleleka kwaye liya kukunceda ekubhaleni amanqaku. Gcina ukhumbule amanqaku okuhlawula itshekhi kuwo. Nokuba ungazama kangakanani na umntwana wakho angangaphumeleli kwinqanaba elithile lobomi bakhe kwaye KULUNGILE kuba ufunda kwiimpazamo zakho zangaphambili. Ingomso alifiki, kufuneka uqale kwanamhlanje. Ukuqala kusoloko kunzima kodwa kungcono kwangethuba. Khumbula ukuba 'BONKE ABANTWANA BANOKUFUNDA'.