Ubafumana njani abantwana ukuba bakumamele ngaphandle kokukhala?
Sisoloko sibona abazali bexhalatyiswa kukungabaphulaphuli komntwana wabo. Kufuneka bazi amaqhinga kunye neendlela zokufumana abantwana ukuba baphulaphule kwaye babenze benze izenzo ngokwenza oko bakuthethayo. Kuninzi okwenzekayo ezingqondweni zabantwana kwelo nqanaba lobomi. Baxhalabele ngakumbi ngomdlalo wabo we-tv abawuthandayo kunexesha lokuhlamba. Kungokwemvelo kwaye kwenzeka kumzali ngamnye kwinqanaba elithile lobomi libenza bajonge iindlela zokwenza abantwana bamamele. Indlela ozijonga ngayo izinto eziphambili azifani, zineeprayorithi ezahlukileyo. Abantwana babeka phambili izinto ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngokwento ebenza bonwabe. Uthetha into echubekileyo nangendlela efanelekileyo kwaye usasebenza ngathi akeva ekwenza ukhathazeke kwaye ufune ukwazi ngolu hlobo lokuziphatha kwakhe. Indlela abangayihoyi ngayo into oyithethileyo malunga namaxesha ayi-5 ikwenza ukuba ukhale kwaye ekugqibeleni ungazisola ngokuba luhlobo lomzali oye waba ngalo. Ufumana iindlela zokujongana nomntwana ongamameliyo. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa kunye namaqhinga onokuthi uwasebenzise anokunceda malunga nendlela yokwenza abantwana bakho bamamele kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho omncinci athathele ingqalelo into oyithethayo okokuqala.
1) Tsala ingqalelo yakhe:
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza umntu akumamele okanye achaze into ofuna ukuyithetha emntwaneni kukufika kwinqanaba lakhe. Abantwana ngokuqhelekileyo banovelwano kakhulu. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uthethe izinto phezulu ukusuka kwelinye igumbi ukuya kubo behleli kwigumbi lokuphumla kwaye ulindele ukuba balandele. Jonga umsebenzi ebewenza kwaye ngokwenza amagqabaza ngawo uzame ukungena kwindawo yakhe. Mbambe kancinci kwaye umcacisele imfundiso malunga nento ofuna ukuyithetha. Ukumamela kufuneka ube liziko lakhe lengqwalasela kwaye uhloniphe into ayithandayo umzekelo ikhathuni ayithandayo okanye umdlalo endiwuthandayo. Unokuqala ngokuthi "Ndifuna ukuxoxa ngento ethile" kwaye uhambe nento ofuna ukuyihambisa.
2) Qinisekisa ukuba awuphindi:
Ukuba umntwana uyazi kakuhle into yokuba uya kucelwa ukuba akuphulaphule ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kuyacaca ukuba kutheni engayi kunikela ingqalelo. Kufuneka ayazi into oyithethileyo kanye ayizukuphinda kabini kwaye kufuneka ayithathele ingqalelo okokuqala. Ukuphindaphinda kunciphisa ukubaluleka koko ukuthethayo kwaye kuyasilela kumzamo wakho wokufumana abantwana ukuba baphulaphule.
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3) Mnike ukhetho:
Zama ukumnika ukhetho xa ufuna ukumamela into ethile kwaye umvumele enze isigqibo malunga nokuba umkhethele ntoni. Umsindo nezisongelo azisebenzi kwaye endaweni yokwenza umntwana azive enetyala okanye kakubi ngokungakumameli, kumenza abe nenkani kwaye angakwazi ukukuphulaphula. Kufuneka ukhethe iindlela ezinokukunceda ukuba wenze njani abantwana bamamele ngaphandle kokungxola. Ukuba umbiza ngokuba ahlambe amazinyo ungahamba ngokukhawuleza okanye emva kwemizuzu eyi-10.
4) Xelela into oyilindeleyo:
Umntwana ufanele azazi izinto ezilindelwe ngabazali bakhe kuye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukumenza aqonde izinto. Ngaphambi kokuba aqale ngokwenza into kufuneka azi isicwangciso sakho ngaphambi koko kwaye sisisombululo esona sisombululo sendlela yokuqeqesha umntwana ongayi kuphulaphula. Endaweni yokumngxolisa ngento ayenzayo, mlumkise ngaphambi kwayo. Thatha umzekelo womntwana wakho ebukele itv Ufika ekhaya umbone eyibukele kuba xa uhambayo uya kukhwaza ngokwemvelo. Endaweni yoko, ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, mxelele malunga nezicwangciso zakho ezinje ngokuba "ndilindele ukuba ucime i-tv ngo-5". Le yokugqibela yeyona ndlela ibhetele yokwenza ingongoma yakho icace ngakumbi.
5) Qaphela imbono yakhe:
Xa ucela into ethile emntwaneni qala uzicingele ngokwakho endaweni yakhe kwaye ucinge ngeemvakalelo zakho ngelo xesha. Khawuzibone uxakekile ubukele umboniso owuthandayo kwaye uphazamiseke phakathi. Isiphumo sicacile. Kuya kukwenza ukhathazeke kwaye ungafuni ukumamela okanye ukuthetha nabani na. Oko kuya nakuye. Ukuba umfumana esenza umsebenzi awuthandayo, linda uphele okanye ukhethe ixesha elifanelekileyo lokubeka isicelo sakho phambi kwakhe.
6) Musa ukufumana iHyper:
Isitshixo sokuba abantwana bakuphulaphule okokuqala ukuba ugcina ukuziphatha kobuhlobo kunye nabo. Ukuba uyacaphuka, oko kuya kubenza bacaphuke baze baphele bengxola. Ukuba ungxamele ukuba kwenye indawo ungavele ukhwaze ube hyper phezu kwezinto ezincinci. Jongana nokuzola kwaye uncede abantwana balungise izinto, izihlangu zabo okanye bancede bapakishe iibhegi zabo zohambo.
7) Kuphephe ukungenzi:
Nokuba nathi singabantu abadala, kusenza sibe nomsindo phezu kwemiyalelo efana nongenzi. Kuvakala kurhabaxa kwaye abantwana banovelwano kakhulu ngezinto ezincinci. Unokusebenzisa kutheni kwaye njani endaweni yokukhomba nantoni na kwangoko. Kucacile ke ngoko, ukuba ulapha ukuze ufumane ukuqonda malunga nendlela yokwenza abantwana bamamele, hlala phantsi uze umcacisele indlela izinto ezimele ukuba ngayo kunye nendlela into ethile enokuthi ibangele ngayo ingozi. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqonda.
8) Yithi Ewe ekunene:
โMama ndingaphuma ndiyodlalaโ? "Hayi". โNdingayifumana enye itshokolethi? "Hayi". Sihlala sikwenza oku kwaye singayihoyi nayiphi na into umntwana ayifunayo ukuze enze iimbono zethu kwaye sicinge ukuba kuya kumenza abe nenkani okanye ayibalulekanga kangako. Xa ujongene nenani lezicelo ezizayo, ugqiba uthi Hayi, Hayi, Naah kwaye intle yendalo. Nokuba engqondweni yakho unokucinga ukuba uya kuzalisekisa imfuno yakhe ngenye imini. Kunokuba umale ngoko nangoko usenokuyixabisa iminqweno yakhe uze umeyisele kwixesha elizayo.
Khumbula, kukho ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo phakathi kwabantwana nabazali. Ukuba usilele ukuwomeleza okanye ukuwugcina oko kusenokuba sesinye isizathu sokuba angaphulaphuli. Ibhondi yinto yokuqala omele uyigcine engqondweni xa usokola nendlela yokufumana abantwana ukuba baphulaphule. Ukukhwaza kusenokuba sisicombululo kwiimeko ezinzima kodwa ukufundisa ngomoya ozolileyo nangembeko kuya kumnceda ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ukudibanisa sisitena sokunxibelelana nomntu kwaye ayisiyonto yaxeshanye. Kanye njengabantwana, Abazali nabo kufuneka baphulaphule. Ukuba uzama iindlela zokujongana nomntwana ongamameliyo, kufuneka umamele kwaye uqonde isizathu soko.