Indlela Yokunceda Umntwana Agxile Eklasini?
Kuqhelekile ukuba abafundi bawo onke amanqanaba baphulukane nokugxila nangawuphi na umzuzu ebomini. Yiba yingxaki ekuqondeni iintetho eklasini okanye unzima nokugqiba umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya kwaye ujike ufumane uncedo kwezinye iiarhente zokubhala ezifana YitshangIi. Kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi ezibangela ukuba umntwana asilele ukugcina ugxininiso eklasini. Isenokuba yingxaki yokulungelelanisa okanye ukungabi nabuchule bokunxibelelana okanye mhlawumbi uneentloni kakhulu. Ngokudibana nootitshala kunye nokujonga ngokusondeleyo uya kwazi ukuba umntwana wakho ujongene nalo mbandela. Into entle kukuba ngokulandela amanyathelo afanelekileyo unokuphumelela ekugcineni ugxininiso olomeleleyo. Usenokudibana neengxelo ezinje, 'Umntwana wam kunzima ukuba abafundisi-ntsapho bamphathe', 'Akakwazi ukuzenzela umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya' kunye nezinto ezilolo hlobo. Izinto ezinjalo zinokubeka abazali engxakini okanye bazixhalabise ngendlela yokusingatha izinto yaye oko kwenzeka nakubafundisi-ntsapho njengoko kufuneka bajonge inani elikhulu labafundi eklasini.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso kubazali kunye nootitshala ukunceda uncedo malunga nendlela yokunceda umntwana ukuba agxile eklasini kunye nokunceda umntwana onengxaki yokugxila esikolweni.
1) Gxininisa kwaye ujamelane nemingeni:
Ukuba umntwana unenkathazo ekugxininiseni kwaye unokuba ufuna iindlela zokufundisa umntwana ukuba agxininise kwaye agxininise, khumbula ukuba ukungabikho kokugxila akuyongxaki kodwa iingxaki zinokuvela xa zingahoywa. Okokuqala qaphela ukuba kutheni umntwana engagxininisi kugxininiso, kusenokuba kungenxa yokuba isantya sakhe sicotha ngakumbi kunabanye kwaye uhlala esemva kwabanye kumsebenzi waseklasini okhokelela kumsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya ongagqitywanga, Okanye mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba abaphumli kwaye bengenawo umdlalo ongacwangciswanga, apho banokukhulula onke amandla abo! Ukuba yeyokugqibela, inokuba luluvo oluhle ukutyala imali kwi Ibhayisekile iVuly. UVuly uthengisa nezinye ezininzi iithoyi zabantwana zangaphandle loo nto iya kugcina abantwana bonwabile kangangeeyure, kwaye ibancede banikele ingqalelo xa beseklasini.
Awunakwazi ukuba isizathu esibangela ingxaki kukuba umntwana akahlakaniphile ngokwaneleyo ukubamba izinto okanye ufuna ukuhoywa ngakumbi okanye mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba akanamdla. Ukuba kunjalo ke kuya kufuneka wenze imizamo yokwenza izinto zibe nomdla kuye kwaye umbone esiba ngcono ngokugxila.
2) Into enye ngexesha:
Ayinguye wonke umntu olungileyo kwimisebenzi emininzi. Kulungile ukuba ukwazi ukuphatha imisebenzi engaphezu kwesinye ngexesha kodwa akuyomfuneko ukuba umntu akwazi ukulawula. Ikwakhokelela ekuphambukeni kugxininiso kwinto enye ukuba unokuninzi kwipleyiti yakho. Qeqesha umntwana wakho ukuba anike i-100% yakhe kwizinto eziphambi kwakhe kwaye angacingi ngokuzayo.
3) Yahlula phantsi:
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokujongana nengxaki entsonkothileyo kungakhathaliseki ukuba inkulu okanye incinci kangakanani ukuyiqhekeza ibe ngamacandelwana amancinci. Ngokwenza oko kuba lula ukuqonda ngcono kwaye kugxininise ngakumbi kumsebenzi ngamnye. Umntwana ufumana ingcaciso ecacileyo nemfutshane malunga nendlela yokwenza izinto kwaye unokusebenzela kuyo ngokwenza uluhlu lokutshekisha nganye sesona sisombululo silungileyo sokunceda umntwana wam agxile ngokwemvelo.
4) Mfundise ukujongana neziphazamiso:
Nokuba uzama kangakanani na, akunakwenzeka ukuba ugcine iziphazamiso zikude ngokupheleleyo. Nokuba igumbi lokufundela limiselwe ukunyusa iintshukumisa zokufunda emntwaneni, usenokuphazamiseka kwintaka ehleli ngaphandle kwefestile kwaye awunakwenza nto ngayo. Undoqo kukumenza akwazi ukujongana nayo nayiphi na into eza phakathi kwemfundo yakhe kunye naye. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana akasayi kunikwa ngqalelo yakhe okanye ukuba umntwana unengxaki yokunikela ingqalelo esikolweni, mnike ikhefu elifutshane uze umvumele adlale okwethutyana uze uqhubeke nezifundo. Eklasini ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba abantwana ababonisi mdla, qalisa ngeseshoni emfutshane yolonwabo emva koko uqhubeke nesifundo emva koko.
5) Amathuba okufunda:
Yiba nomfanekiso wakho usenza nawuphi na umsebenzi kangangeeyure kwaye ungaziniki nayiphi na iseshoni yekhefu kuyo yonke loo nto, uya kubangela ukuba udinwe kwaye uyithiye. Awusoze ufune ukuyenza kwakhona. Abantwana banovakalelo kwaye banomdla kunabantu abadala, basenokuzonwabisa kwasekuqaleni kodwa baphulukane nojoliso nomdla ekugqibeleni. Ikhefu libaluleke kakhulu kubantwana ukuba bazalise amandla aphelileyo kuwo. Cwangcisa ikhefu elifutshane phakathi kweseshoni yokufunda kunye nokufunda ukuba unenjongo yokunceda umntwana agxile eklasini.
6) Dlala iMidlalo yokuGxininisa:
Imidlalo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokugcina umntwana wakho ebandakanyeka kwinto ethile kutheni ungazami ngeminye yemidlalo yebhodi, iipuzzle zejigsaw puzzle kunye nephazili yamagama. Banceda ngokugxila kunye nokulola ingqondo kwaye abantwana bayakonwabela ukwenza oko. Imisebenzi enjalo ifuna izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki, ukugxila ngamandla kunye nokucinga. Okukhona unceda umntwana wakho ukuba agxininise ekhaya, uya kube esenza okufanayo esikolweni.
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7) Ziqhelanise nokulinda:
Ungothuka ukwazi ukuba umonde unceda njani ekuphuhliseni ukugxila. Ewe, yinyani. Umonde uyakha emntwaneni kwaye womeleze amandla okunikela ingqalelo kwizinto ngobuchule. Mfundise indlela yokuba nomonde ngoxa elinde kwagqirha okanye emgceni evenkileni. Kunokuba umvumele abukele iimuvi, mthelele kwimidlalo enjalo. Ziluncedo kakhulu kwindlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba agxile kwigumbi lokufundela kwaye afumaneke nakwi-intanethi ukuze ungaphumi uyokukhangela enye.
8) Menze ahlale Phambili:
Nangona igumbi lokufundela liyilwe ngokungqongqo ukuba libe yindawo yokufunda engqongqo yomntwana kodwa lisenokuba neziphazamiso ezininzi ukuphambukisa ujoliso. Ukuba unomntwana onenkathazo yokugxila esikolweni kakade, kufuneka abe kwisihlalo esingaphambili angavumeli ukuphazamiseka kuye. Ukuhlala ngasemva kunokuphazamisa omnye ngenxa yokungagxininisi kootitshala kwaye usenokuba uthetha nabanye abafundi ngexesha leklasi.
9) Beka phambili Ukulala:
Ukulala kufuneka wenze okuninzi ngomsebenzi obuya kuwenza kusuku olulandelayo. Ukulala kakuhle kweeyure ezisi-8 luphawu lwengqondo ephilileyo nentsha enokuthi ikwazi ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuvuka ebusuku kakhulu kwaye ucinga ukuba uya kunika i-100% yakho akunakwenzeka. Umntwana kufuneka alandele ixesha elingqongqo lokulala ukuze akwazi ukugxila kwizinto. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ulala kakuhle kwaye umncede ukuba alale ukuba akafuni ukwenza njalo.
10) Ukufezekiswa koMvuzo:
Yamkela uphuculo oluncinane oluboniswa ngumntwana. Inika inkuthazo nenkuthazo yokwenza ngcono. Ukuba uyambona esenza imigudu ethile, mxabise. Ingamenza ngcono ngale nto ayenzayo. Ukuba ubonisa ukuphucuka okukhulu, yibhiyozele. Amagama ambalwa athethwe kuye avela kuwe unokumfumana anike konke okusemandleni akhe kwinto abanjwe ngayo.
Ukuqwalasela umntwana wakho ngokusondeleyo kunye nokuphuhlisa unxibelelwano oluluqilima kunye notitshala wakhe kunokumnceda ukuba agxininise ekhaya naseklasini kwaye akuncede wenze ngcono malunga nendlela yokunceda umntwana agxininise eklasini. Ukuba umntwana ufumana yonke into ekhaya yaye uyakwazi ukunikela ingqalelo nokuqonda izinto kodwa asilele ukwenjenjalo eklasini, isizathu sisenokuba ziziphazamiso angakwaziyo ukuzihoya apho. Abazali nootitshala kufuneka banxibelelane omnye nomnye ukukhuthaza ukukhula okunempilo komntwana.