Iingcebiso ezi-3 zabazali Indlela yokuphucula ubuchule bomntwana wabo
Ulwazi kunye nobuchule esibufumana kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bumisela ikamva lethu. Esi sisiseko apho zonke iimpumelelo zethu kubomi bomntu kunye nomsebenzi wakhelwe phezu kwawo. Kuhle ukuba abazali banamhlanje bazama ukuphuhlisa abantwana babo ngandlela zonke kwaye banikele ingqalelo eyaneleyo kungekuphela nje ekukhuleni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kodwa nakwizakhono zabo zokudala. Ngoncedo luka-Ann Nikson, ingcali kwi Isifundo kunye nomzali oyaziyo, sikulungiselele uluhlu lwamacebiso aluncedo.
1. Ungoyiki ukushiya umntwana wakho yedwa kwaye umvumele azenzele ukhetho
Le ngcebiso inxulumene ne ixesha lokuphumla komntwana. Xa umvumela ukuba akhethe ukuba zeziphi izinto zokudlala aza kudlala ngazo, zoba okanye imodeli ngodongwe, funda okanye ucule ikaraoke, tyhila iipuzzle okanye wakhe inqaba ngezitena. Kwanaxa esemncinane kakhulu, vumela umntwana wakho azikhethele into afuna ukuyenza yedwa. Musa ukuphazamisa xa uqaphela ukuba udonsa i-scissors ukusika ama-snowflakes, nokuba emva koko kuya kufuneka uqokelele amaqhekeza amancinci ajikeleze indlu.
Lo mthetho awuthethi ngoqeqesho. Umntwana wakho omncinci kufuneka aqonde ukuba unokukhetha umsebenzi wakhe kwaye uya kubaxhasa kuyo nayiphi na inketho, kodwa uxanduva lokuzicoca emva kwakhe iimoto ezisasazekileyo okanye ukupeyinta ngeebrashi kunye namanzi achithekileyo emgangathweni ayikakhanselwa.
2. Nciphisa iTV kunye nemidlalo kwithebhulethi ibencinci
Ukuba endaweni yomsebenzi wokudala umntwana wakho uyakhala ukuba uvule iikhathuni, zama ukudibanisa okumnandi kunye luncedo. Umzekelo:
- Lungiselela ukuba umntwana wakho azame ukuzoba umlinganiswa amthandayo emva kokubukela.
- Misela umgaqo wokubalisa kwakhona okufutshane, okukukubalisa kwakhona ingcamango ephambili yekhathuni, intsomi, okanye isincoko.
- Xa ubukele umboniso weTV, mnike umsebenzi wokufanisa umdlali okanye umculi ekupheleni.
- Buza imibuzo ekhokelayo xa ubukela ifilimu kunye, ukuze umntwana afunde ukuhlalutya ulwazi alubonayo.
Ukongezelela, shiya kwizinto ezibonakalayo zomntwana wakho anokusebenza ngazo kwaye enze into entsha ngezandla zakhe: iplastiki, iipensile, iicube, isethi yokwakha.
3. Dlala umdlalo “Indlela yokufumana indlela yokuphuma”
Dlala umdlalo wemeko. Iimeko ezicingelwayo apho nibeka omnye komnye ngokutshintshana. Imeko nganye enikiweyo kufuneka ibe nengxaki ekufuneka isonjululwe. Nabani na oza nezona zisombululo zininzi uya kufumana indlela yokuphuma.
Masithi:
Imeko #1. Umntwana udlala esitratweni aze azike umnwe wakhe. Kwenziwe ntoni? Ziziphi izenzo eziya kuba zezona zibalulekileyo, yaye zeziphi eza kulandela kamva? Indlela yokufumana indlela enengqiqo kunye nokujongana nengxaki?
Imeko #2. Kufuneka wazi ukuba ngubani ixesha kodwa akunayo iwotshi okanye iselfowuni yakho kuwe. Uza kwenza ntoni? Khetha elona nani liphezulu lezisombululo kwingxaki.
Imibuzo ebuzwa qho
1. Ziziphi ezinye iindlela abazali abanokuzisebenzisa ukuze bakhulise ubuchule bokuyila ebantwaneni babo, yaye kutheni oku kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwabo?
Ukuze bakhuthaze ubuchule babantwana babo, abazali banokukhuthaza umdlalo ovulekileyo, banike amathuba okuphonononga nokufumanisa, baze baxhase umdla womntwana wabo. Kubalulekile kuphuhliso lwabantwana kuba ubuchule bokuyila bongeza izakhono zokusombulula iingxaki, ukucinga nzulu, ukuziveza, kunye nokuguquguquka. Ikhuthaza ukusungula izinto ezintsha kwaye ilungiselela abantwana imingeni kwixesha elizayo kwihlabathi eliguquka ngokukhawuleza.
2. Abazali banokubanceda njani abantwana babo boyise iingxaki, baze babakhuthaze ukuba baqhubeke bezama izinto ezintsha?
Abazali banokunceda abantwana boyise iibhloko zokuyila okanye imingeni ngokubonelela ngendawo exhasayo nengagwebiyo. Banokukhuthaza ukulinga, ukubhiyozela umzamo kunye nenkqubela phambili kunokugxila kuphela kwiziphumo, kwaye bancede umntwana wabo aphuhlise ingqondo yokukhula. Ukukhuthaza ukuzingisa, ukunika ingxelo eyakhayo, kunye nokuveza abantwana kumava nemibono eyahlukahlukeneyo nako kunokubakhuthaza ukuba bahlale bezama izinto ezintsha.
3. Zeziphi ezinye zezinto eziluncedo okanye umthambo abazali abanokuwenza nabantwana babo ukuze bavuselele intelekelelo yabo nobuchule babo bokuyila?
Imisebenzi eyenziwayo evuselela intelekelelo kunye nokuyila ibandakanya ubugcisa kunye nobugcisa, ukubalisa amabali, umdlalo ocingayo, umculo kunye nomdaniso, ukwakha ngeebhloko okanye i-Legos, ukuhlola indalo, kunye nemidlalo yokusombulula iingxaki. Le misebenzi ibandakanya iimvakalelo ezininzi, ikhuthaza ukucinga kwasekuqaleni, kwaye ivumela abantwana ukuba baveze izimvo zabo ngokukhululekileyo. Ukudibanisa izinto zentelekelelo, ukudlala indima, okanye ukusombulula iingxaki kunokuvuselela ngakumbi ubuchule bokuyila.
4. Abazali banokuyilungelelanisa njani imfuneko yokukhuthaza ubuchule bokuyila nemfuneko yokunikela ucwangciso nokhokelo kubomi babantwana babo?
Ukulungelelanisa ukukhuthazwa kokuyila kunye nesakhiwo kunye nesikhokelo kubalulekile. Abazali banokubonelela ngesakhelo esixhasayo esivumela ukuhlola ngaphakathi kwemida. Ukumisela imida efanelekileyo, ukumisela iindlela zesiqhelo, kunye nokubonelela ngesikhokelo malunga nokhuseleko kunye neengqwalasela zokuziphatha kunceda abantwana baqonde ukubaluleka kwemithetho kunye nemida ngelixa besakhuthaza ubuchule. Ukudala ulungelelwano kuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana banenkululeko yokuphonononga amandla abo okudala ngelixa bephuhlisa izakhono zobomi ezibalulekileyo.
5. Ngaba kukho nawaphi na amanqanaba obudala athile okanye amanqanaba okukhula apho kubaluleke ngakumbi ukugxila ekuphuhliseni ubuchule bokuyila ebantwaneni, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ngoba?
Ngelixa ubuchule bokuyila bubalulekile kuwo onke amanqanaba ophuhliso, ubuntwana bokuqala kunye nokufikisa kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuthazeni ubuchule bokuyila. Ebuntwaneni, ingqondo iwamkela kakhulu amava amatsha, yaye intelekelelo yabantwana nomdla wokwazi ikwincopho yabo. Ukukhuthaza ubuchule ngeli nqanaba kubeka isiseko esomeleleyo sokucinga ngokuyilayo ubomi bonke. Ngexesha lokufikisa, ubuchule bokuyila bunceda abakwishumi elivisayo ukuba bajonge ukuzichaza, ukuqulunqa isazisi, kunye nokusombulula iingxaki kwiimeko ezintsonkothileyo neziguqukayo ngokukhawuleza kwezentlalo nezemfundo. Inokuba ngumthombo wokuzaliseka komntu kunye nokuxhotyiswa ngeli xesha libalulekileyo lophuhliso.
Iingcinga Final
Into ephambili ekukhuliseni umntu omncinci wokudala ayikuphazamisi ubuchule. Hlonipha ukhetho lomntwana wakho, xhasa umdla wakhe, kunye nomnqweno wokukhula konke. Xa umntwana wakho ebona ukuba unokuyila into ngothando, ufunda kakuhle kumzekelo wakho. Umsebenzi wokudala kunye nokucinga ngokuyilayo kukhula xa siqonda ngokucacileyo ubuntu bethu kwaye sizinike ithuba.
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