Ungamfundisa njani umntwana osakhulayo ukwabelana
Ukwabelana ngumsebenzi ocelomngeni ngokubanzi kubantwana abancinci kwaye kubaluleke ngokulinganayo ekwenzeni ukuba babe nabahlobo kwaye babe nentsebenziswano kwimisebenzi yobomi bemihla ngemihla ngokunjalo. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana osakhasayo ukwabelana ngomgangatho omele uphuhliswe kwasebuncinaneni kwaye unokwenziwa ngcono ngokunika umntwana wakho ixesha elininzi kunye nethuba lokuwuqhelisela. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokubabandakanya kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yokudlala nasekufundiseni. Ukuba unexhala malunga nomntwana wakho ofunda esikolweni ongakakulungeli ukwabelana ngezinto zakhe kunye nezinto zakhe okanye indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukwabelana, ungakhathazeki malunga naloo nto kwaye yinkqubo yokufunda yendalo kunye nemigudu encinci. Kuya kuthatha ixesha ukuba alungelelanise lo mkhwa ekubeni abantwana aba baselula babeka iimfuno zabo kuqala kunabanye kwaye into yokwabelana inokumcaphukisa. Ukwabelana kuhambelana nomonde kwaye zombini izinto zisebenza kunye. Usenokubona abantwana abancinci kunye nabantwana abancinci besilwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithatyathwe nguye okanye zichukumise ezinye izinto. Ibalulekile kuba inceda abantwana benze abahlobo baze badibane nabantu kamva ebomini. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ixesha elide xa umntwana efika kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci okanye ukhathalelo lwabantwana, kuya kufuneka akhethe ukwabelana ngeempawu.
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Bafundise Ngokwabelana:
Abazali bangumzekelo kubantwana babo kwaye balandelwa ngabo. Nasiphi na isenzo okanye amagama owathethayo phambi kwabo, gcina engqondweni ukuba banengqiqo enamandla kakhulu yokuqwalasela kwaye nantoni na oyenzayo igcinwa ezingqondweni zabo kwaye iyafana ngelixa ufundisa abantwana ukwabelana. Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka ubanike amathuba kunye nezenzo zokuziqhelanisa. Nazi ezinye iindlela onokuthi ukhuthaze ngazo abantwana bakho ukuba babelane ngezinto nabanye kwaye baqaqambise ukubaluleka kwayo kunye neengenelo: - Benze baqaphele izinto ezintle ezinje ngokuba "umfundi ofunda naye ebenobubele esabelana nabahlobo bakhe ngezinto zokudlala". Bekuya kubenza bacinge ukuba nabanye bayaluthanda olo hlobo lwesijekulo. โ Dlala imisebenzi ebandakanya ukwabelana kunye nokuba nomonde njengokulinda ithuba lakho de wonke umntu agqibe. โ Fumana amakhadi okanye ukupeyintwa kootitshala nabahlobo. Kufana nokwenza iinzame zakho ukwenzela abantu abakuthandayo nabakukhathaleleyo. -Bancome ngelixa ufundisa abantwana ukwabelana nabanye ukuba ubafumana bedlala nabanye, besabelana ngezinto zabo. โ Kholwa, ukwabelana kungaphezu kwezinto eziphathekayo, kumalunga neemvakalelo. Kwakhona kufuneka wabelane ngexesha lakho kunye nemigudu. โ Thetha naye malunga neemvakalelo zakhe njengokuthi โUcinga ntoni, umhlobo wakho akasayi kukubuyisa into yokudlala?โ okanye โNgaba uyoyika ukungalifumani ithuba lakho?โ Mxelele ukuba izinto ezinjalo zimxhalabisa ukuba azole aze enze izimbo zomzimba ezintle azicelele izinto zakhe ngembeko ukuba ufuna zibuye.
Yenze Kumnandi:
Imidlalo yoKhuphiswano ilungile kubantwana ngokufumana loo mvakalelo yokufuna ukwenza umzamo wokuphuhlisa kuwo kodwa xa ubafundisa ngokwabelana kunye nokufumana ezo mpawu zakhe, kulapho kufuneka umbandakanye kwimidlalo yentsebenziswano. Bavumele badlale iphazili ngokudibanisa neqela, badlale iludo (kufuneka balinde ithuba labo) kunye nemisebenzi efana nale. Yenza amaqela kwaye ubanike imisebenzi efana nokupeyinta okanye ukwenza amakhadi ootitshala nabahlobo, kuya kubakhuthaza ukuba babelane ngezimvo nangezimvo omnye komnye.
Hlonipha Impahla Yakhe:
Nangona ukwabelana kusisenzo esihle kodwa singabazali nabafundisi ngelixa sifundisa abantwana ukwabelana, kufuneka sabelane ngentlonipho kwizinto abanazo. Ukuba ufumanisa into ethile efana nempahla, into yokudlala okanye nayiphi na enye into anayo okanye anayo, mbuze ngaphambi kokuba uyithathe. Endaweni yokuba uthi makavumele abanye badlale ngayo, funa imvume efana nale "Ngaba ungathanda ukuba udade wakho athathe ixesha elithile, uya kuyibuyisela". Yaye kungekuphela nje wena kodwa qiniseka ukuba abahlobo bakhe nabantakwenu nabo banale ntlonelo ngaphakathi kubo, njengemvume yakhe uze uqiniseke ukuba iya kubuyiselwa kuye ikhuselekile. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, bafundise ukukhathalela ngakumbi izinto zabanye.
Khokela Ngomzekelo:
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abelane ivela kuwe, thatha uncedo kwinto yokuba abantwana banikele ingqalelo ngokusondeleyo kwinto eyenziwa ngabazali babo. Ngoko, qala ngawe. Yiba ngumzekelo wabantwana bakho kwaye ubavumele baqwalasele. Isiqingatha semfundiso siya kwenziwa ngolu hlobo. Yabelana nge-ayisikrimu yakho, iilekese kunye nezinto kunye nabo. Ngaphambi kokuba ube nantoni na, qiniseka ukuba uyababuza ukuba bangathanda na ukuba nayo. Kuya kuba ngumkhwa kubo. Hayi abantwana kuphela, buza wonke umntu ohleli phantsi. Sebenzisa ukwabelana kwamagama ngelixa usenza njalo kwaye ubazise ukubaluleka kwayo kunye nefuthe ngokujonga nje ukuba uyenza. Loo mvakalelo abayifumanayo xa bebuzwa ngabanye phambi kwabo ukuba banayo iya kuba nefuthe kangangokuba iya kubanceda baqonde ukuba ukuba baya kwenza okufanayo, iya kuphelela ekubeni ibeke impembelelo yobubele kwabanye.
Ungaze Wohlwaye Ngokungabelani:
Kwinqanaba lokuqala lokufundisa, unokuziva uneentloni kwaye unomsindo ukubukela umntwana wakho ekhohlakele kwaye ezingca ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuba umbona ehlutha izinto yaye esilwela izinto, loo nto inokukucaphukisa. Yenza izinto ngengqondo ezolileyo, ukuba uyamohlwaya okanye umthethise umntwana wakho unokumenza abe nenkani kwaye azikhusele. Kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kuwe ukumenza alungelelanise isimilo ngenye indlela. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba kunzima ukuba umntwana abe nemvakalelo yokunikela ngezinto zakhe kwabanye kwaye avumele ukuba ahambe izinto zakhe. Kuya kuthatha ixesha ukuba aphuhlise le ndlela yokuziphatha. Njengoko ekhula, uya kuyamkela ngokwakhe le ndlela yokuziphatha kwaye uya kubona utshintsho olukhulu kubuntu bakhe kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe. Yiba nje kufutshane nomncinci wakho kwaye umnike ixesha lakho elininzi kunye nemigudu. Uya kubona indlela aqhelana ngayo nendlela abufunxa ngayo ubuntu bakho. Vumela umntwana wakho omncinci abe phakathi kwabantwana ukususela emncinci. Makakhulise ithemba lakhe phezu kwabanye. Yazi ukuba umntwana osesikolweni okanye umntwana omncinci usemncinci kakhulu ukuba angabelana nabanye ngezinto zakhe, nawe. Njengoko ekhula kwaye eqala ukuya esikolweni, uya kuba nayo kuye. Kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye unike konke okusemandleni akho.