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Kweli xesha le-negativity apho ukuxhatshazwa kuxhaphakile kufuneka sazi ukubaluleka kobubele. Uninzi lwabantu lukholelwa ukuba luza kwaye luphuhlise ngokuguga kunye nexesha eliyinyani ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile kodwa amandla elibeka omnye komnye kunye nefuthe lenza ukuba kubaluleke ukufunda kwasebutsheni. Ububele abupheleliselwanga nje ekuncedeni abanye kodwa bunxulumene nesenzo sobubele, ukubulisa ekuqaleni, ukwabelana ngezinto kunye nokuba kukho umntu othile. Eli nqaku ligxininisa kuphawu oluphambili, oko kukuthi, ububele. Ithemba elinyamezelayo alichaphazeli abanye kuphela kodwa naye.
Ukucinga ukuba baya kukhula babe ngabantu abadala abanobubele bebodwa kwaye kutheni bechitha ixesha kwinto enjalo endaweni yokwenza ipiyano, izifundo okanye esinye isenzo esinentsingiselo akulunganga. Khawucinge nje ukuba bekuya kuba ngcono kangakanani na ii-ofisi, amagumbi okufundela kunye nezinye iindawo ukuba olu phawu lwenziwa umntu osemncinci. Imiceli mngeni ikhulisa uvakalelo lwenkuthazo phakathi kwabantwana ukuba bathabathe kwaye basasaze ukuba nembono entle.
Ekubeni singabazali okanye umfundisi-ntsapho simele senze umgudu kwizenzo ezinjalo size sibancede bahambisane nezifundo. Apha ngezantsi kukho imisebenzi emininzi yobubele yabafundi bamabanga aphantsi ekhuthaza isimo sengqondo sobubele kunye nokulunga.
1) Izinto ezintle:
Lo ngomnye wemisebenzi emfutshane kunye nenempembelelo yobubele yabantwana ekhokelela ekusasazeni imeko-bume entle kwigumbi lokufundela. Ungade uqalise intetho ngayo. Hlanganisa bonke abantwana kunye, ungatshintsha izihlalo zabo ngaphambi kokuba uqale. Banike amanqaku ancangathi kunye nemizuzu emi-5 yokubhala into entle malunga neqabane lakhe lebhentshi. Baxelele ukuba babhale amagama abo phezulu ephepheni. Ungongeza kwakhona imibuzo embalwa ukuba uceba utshintsho umzekelo 'into enye engcono ngawe' okanye inokuba 'Ndiyabuthanda ubuntu bakho kuba'. Landela ngokubenza bafunde ngokuvakalayo ekugqibeleni kwaye uvumele abanye bazi ngayo. Oku akuyi kulomeleza nje ulwalamano lwakhe naye kuphela kodwa kwakuza kwenza omnye nomnye aqonde ukubaluleka kwezinto ezincinci abangazibalileyo. Iyakuba lithuba lokuba abantwana babelane ngoluvo lwabo mhlawumbi abangazukuluthetha ubomi babo bonke.
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2) Ibhokisi yoxabiso:
Ekubeni abanye abantu babambe ubuntu obuneentloni ukususela ebuntwaneni kwaye abafumani nto bekhululekile ukuthetha izinto phambi komntu wonke. Imisebenzi yobubele enjalo kubafundi bamabanga aphantsi yeyokukhuthaza abantwana kwaye bavule iimbono zabo phambi komntu wonke. Ibhokisi yombulelo inokumiswa ize ibekwe ngasemva eklasini kunye nephedi yamanqaku ancamathelayo. Wonke umfundi kuquka nabafundisi-ntsapho banokushiya umyalezo wokubulela ngaphakathi kuyo. Ekupheleni kweveki yonke umyalezo wawunokufundwa ngokuvakalayo phambi kweklasi yonke.
3) Funda Iincwadi ezimalunga noBubele:
Ukufundisa ububele kubafundi bamabanga aphantsi ngoncwadi yeyona ndlela imnandi nenempumelelo yokumisela izibonelelo kunye nokwenza abantwana baqonde ifuthe lesimo sengqondo sobubele kwabanye. Yongeza ezo ncwadi kuludwe lwakho uze uzicele ukuba zifundwe zichaza ukubaluleka kobubele kunye neengenelo obuzizisa kuye siqu. I-quilt yobubele, ukuba nobubele kunye nabantu abalungileyo kuyo yonke indawo babanye abaninzi ngaphandle.
4) Dumisa uBubele:
Kukho i-negativity eninzi ejikeleze thina ngeli xesha apho kukho abantu abambalwa kakhulu apho babeka imizamo yokwenza umntu azive efanelekile. Abantwana abanjalo bafanelwe yindumiso kunye nomvuzo, onokuthi ungabi yinto eninzi kodwa ukunconywa ngenqaku. Ukubavuza ngayo nayiphi na isicatshulwa esiphefumlelweyo esidumileyo kunye nokuxelela intsingiselo yayo kuye wonke umntu yenye indlela.
5) Uyilo oluhle okanye iiPowusta:
Kulo msebenzi unokwahlula abantwana babe ngamaqela amancinane kwaye unike ngamnye ipowusta kunye neziphawuli ezimibalabala. Baxelele ukuba babeke bonke ubuchule babo kuyo kwaye babhale isicatshulwa sobubele bebodwa okanye bakhethe ebhalwe ebhodini. Banokuthatha izimvo kumaqabane baze basebenze kunye kuyo. Ekugqibeleni zibonise zonke ebhodini okanye naluphi na udonga eklasini ukuze abanye bafumane inkuthazo kuyo.
6) Iileta zokubulela :
Baninzi abantu abasingqongileyo esikolweni abasebenza nzima kakhulu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Bafumana uxabiso oluncinane okanye bangabikho kwaphela yaye endaweni yoko ngamanye amaxesha baphathwa kakubi. Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba babe nobubele kubantu abanjalo nako kubaluleke kakhulu. Unokuseta umsebenzi kanye ngenyanga ukuze uncome iinzame zabantu abanjalo ngokwenza abantwana babhale iileta ezikhuthazayo kubo. Imisebenzi enjalo yobubele kubantwana igxininisa iingqondo zabantwana ukuba wonke umntu ojikelezileyo ufanelwe uthando nobubele.
8) IiMbasa zoBubele:
Nika abafundi imivuzo yobubele ngenxa yesimo sabo sengqondo kwabanye. Izenzo ezincinci ezinjalo zikhulisa inkuthazo ebantwaneni ukuba bathathe isenzo esinjalo kunye nabo kwixesha elizayo. Amabhaso awabhekiseli kuphela kwiimbasa kodwa anokuba nantoni na encinci njengenqaku loxabiso okanye isicatshulwa nje ukubagcina behamba ngolo hlobo kwaye benze abanye baqonde ukubaluleka kokulunga kunye nobubele.
Kufuneka siqonde ukuba imisebenzi yobubele yabafundi bamabanga aphantsi ibalulekile kanye njengokufundisa izibalo, isiNgesi kunye nezinye izifundo kubo. Khumbula ukuba xa umntwana engakwazi ukuphumelela, nokuba uzama kangakanani na, akayi kukwazi ukuphumelela. Indlela yokuziphatha ivela kwizenzo kunye nokujonga abanye kunye nokugcina isenzo sobubele. Yiyo loo nto ukwenza umntwana wakho alandele kwaye aqonde indlela yokuba ngumntu onobubele kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuya kufuneka usoloko ubamba ithuba lokubenza bafunde ukusasazeka kwepositivity ngeenxa zonke. Ngokwenza njalo uya kuqwalasela kwaye uzive utshintsho olubonakalayo kwindawo yeklasi kunye nokuziphatha kwabanye. Hayi ngokufundisa kuphela, unokwenza imidlalo yobubele kubafundi bamabanga aphantsi ukwenza ukufunda kube mnandi kwaye kube nefuthe ngakumbi.