Ukuzilawula kubantwana
Amaqhinga okuzibamba kufuneka enze umntwana akwazi ukuzibamba angenzi nantoni na kunokuba uyenze. Ukuzinqanda kwenye i-cookie ngelixa umama engekho ukuba abambe isilingo sakhe esingenampilo kwaye acime umdlalo wevidiyo ngaphandle kokuxelelwa yinto omele ujolise kuyo. Umntwana umele azi indlela nexesha afanele azikhwebule ngalo kwizinto ezithile. Ukuzilawula kubantwana yeyona nto iphambili yokunceda abantwana bakhule abantu abadala abanoxanduva.
Abantwana bafanele bafundiswe izakhono zokubanceda baziqhelanise nokuba noxanduva lokukhulisa abantu abadala abaqolileyo. Abantwana abakwaziyo ukulungelelanisa ukuzeyisa bakulungele ukujamelana nocelomngeni lwexesha elizayo. Abantwana abanjalo bakhetha ukhetho olungcono kungakhathaliseki ukuba bavakalelwa njani ngokwenza oko. Apha ngezantsi kukho izinto ezimbalwa eziya kukunceda ngendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuzilawula kwabancinci bakho.
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1) Cacisa Isizathu esisemva kokuphunyezwa kweMithetho:
Xa uchaza umntwana malunga nemithetho kwaye kutheni kufuneka ilandelwe. Ukuba sifuna ukuba baqonde kwaye bakwazi ukulandela ngaphandle kokuxelelwa, kuyafuneka ukuba bazi ukubaluleka kwayo. Ubani ufanele acaciselwe ukuba kuya kuba yingenelo njani kuye kwixesha elide. Endaweni yokuthi โShiya yonke into kwaye wenze umsebenzi wakho wesikolo wasekhayaโ, unokuseta umvuzo wokuba xa sele egqibile ukwenza oko, uya kudlala kunye okanye ubukele imuvi ayithandayo kunye naye. Endaweni yokwenza nantoni na ethethiweyo nguwe, kufuneka ayazi kwaye ayenze ngokwakhe eqonda ukubaluleka kwayo.
2) Ukufunda okulungileyo:
Xa ufundisa abantwana ukuzilawula, ukuphumeza ngaphandle kokuxambulisana okanye ukubuza imibuzo ayiyonto abanokuyiyeka. Bafuna impendulo kuyo yonke into abaxelelwa ukuba bayenze. Bafundise ukuba iimpazamo azilophawu lomsebenzi ombi kodwa uya kufunda kuwo. Ikufundisa indlela yokwenza ngcono kwixesha elizayo.
3) Fundisa iNyathelo ngeNyathelo:
Abantwana bafuna isakhelo sokufunda nayiphi na inkqubo. Abafundi yonke into ngexesha elinye kwaye yindlela ezifundiswa ngayo kwaye ziqondwe ngcono. Kuthatha ixesha ukufundisa nokuphumeza into ethile. Umsebenzi ontsonkothileyo ulawulwa ngcono ukuba wahlulahlulwe ube ngamanyathelo amancinci kwaye unyamezele iziphumo ezingcono. Baxelele ukuba ayingomsebenzi wasebusuku kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha.
4) Fundisa iZakhono zokuSombulula iiNgxaki:
Izinto umntwana asokola nzima kuzo zinokulandela izisombululo ezilula ukuba nobabini nisebenza kwaye niyazi apho ingxaki ivela khona. Unokufumana umntwana wakho enzima ngokunxiba iyunifomu yakhe, zama ukuyikhupha kwaye uyilungiselele kusasa ngobusuku obungaphambili. Mhlawumbi ujongene nemiba yokuyikhupha kwaye ayilungiselele ukunxiba. Ngokufanayo, ukuba uyazithethelela ngokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, khangela isizathu. Ngaba kukuba akakufumani oko akufundiswayo oko akumenzi abe noxanduva olwaneleyo lokuyenza ngexesha. Hlala naye kwaye umenze ahlaziye oko akwenzileyo esikolweni, thetha notitshala wakhe ukuba agxininise kuye kwaye aqonde ukuba kutheni engakwazi ukwenza njengabanye. Ukufundisa umntwana ukuzilawula akuthethi nje ukumyekisa ukwenza izinto kodwa ukumamela kunye nengxoxo emfutshane malunga nendlela aziva ngayo kwaye uze nesisombululo saloo nto.
5) Umvuzo Ukuziphatha Okulungileyo:
Sonke siyayazi indlela abantwana abathanda ngayo ukufumana umvuzo. Isenokuba luphawu lokubakhuthaza ukuba benze nawuphi na umsebenzi. Misela imigaqo efana nokuba uyakwazi ukuvuka kusasa enze isidlo sakusasa kwangexesha, uya kufumana ilekese ngaloo nto. Nokuba akakuthandi ukwenza oko, umvuzo uya kumkhuthaza ukuba enze njalo. Qinisekisa ukuba awukwenzi umkhwa kwaye uyeke xa eqala ukuqonda umsebenzi wakhe.
6) Qinisekisa ukuba imihla ebekiweyo iyalandelwa:
Ukuba ngocwangco kunye nokusebenza phezu kwayo nayiphi na into kubaluleke kakhulu ngelixa uqhelisela ukuzilawula kubantwana. Kufuneka unike ingxelo kwitafile yesidlo sangokuhlwa kufuneka ilandelwe, yenze i-5-10 mins phambi kokuphepha ukulibaziseka. Uxanduva olunjalo luyakunceda ukuba ube noxanduva nangezinye izinto. Yazisa abantwana ukuba bamiselwe amaxesha okwenza izinto kwaye basebenzise isibali-xesha ukuyikhumbuza. Ukuba ubanika ixesha elongezelelweyo lokudlala, oko kufanele kuqatshelwe kwaye yena ngokwakhe kufuneka enze umsebenzi wakhe olandelayo ngaphandle kokukhumbuza.
7) Umzekelo wokuziphatha kakuhle:
Abantwana badla ngokuba ngabakhi-mkhanya abanobuchule kwaye batyekele ekulandeleni oko bakubonayo. Baqhelisela oko bakubonayo okubangqongileyo. Abazali ngabo abathi izenzo zibe nefuthe ezingqondweni zabantwana. Nokuba awutsho uyamfumana esenza izinto ngalendlela uzenza ngayo. Ngaba usoloko uphelelwa lixesha layo yonke into? Ngaba igumbi lakho lokuphumla limdaka ngalo lonke ixesha? Ngaba ulahla iimpahla zakho naphi na xa ufika ekhaya? Ukufundisa abantwana ukuzeyisa kuya kuzama ukubanceda babe ngabantu abadala abathembekileyo.
8) Lungiselela iNgxaki: :
Yiba linyathelo elinye phambi komntwana wakho malunga nokucwangcisa. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba unokujamelana nokuziphatha okubi kwiimeko ezinjalo. Abantwana bayaphazamiseka xa izinto zingahambi ngendlela abafuna ngayo. Yazi indlela yokusingatha iimeko ezinjalo uze ujamelane nazo ngomsindo nangothando.
9) Ixesha liphelile:
I-time-out sisilumkiso xa kuthe kwaphulwa umthetho wabantwana ukuba benze into engalunganga kwaye uya kukhathazeka. Iya kuba luphawu lokugqibela lokuba baya kujongana neemeko ukuba bayaqhubeka nokwenza. Kwakhona, ukuba bafikelela kwixesha elimiselweyo kuwo nawuphi na umgaqo, thetha ngoko bakwenzileyo okuphosakeleyo uze ubaxelele ngemiphumo ebeya kuba nayo ukuze babe netyala baze bangenzi oko bakwenzileyo kwikamva.
10) Gcina iliso:
Abantwana bakuthatha njengomphathi kunye nomgcini wamehlo wento abayenzayo. Badla ngokungalandeli imithetho ukuba bafumana abazali bengekho. Ubukho bakho buluncedo malunga nokubenza baziqhelanise kwaye balandele ukuzilawula kubantwana kwaye yindlela abaya kuyiqhuba ngayo ubomi babo bonke.