Iintsuku zokufundisa zeVeki kubafundi abasaqalayo ukuya esikolweni
Ngaba ufuna umntwana wakho aliqonde ixesha? Uyalazi ixabiso layo? Kulapho iintsuku zokufundisa zeveki zifuneka khona. Uya kukuqonda ukubaluleka kwexesha. Yiba nomfanekiso wakho omncinci ekubuza ukuba uza kumsa nini epakini kwaye uthi "ngeCawa", kuthekani ukuba akayazi ukuba umgqibelo ungakanani. Caba owakho kulemeko uya kucaphuka yilonto umntwana engazi iintsuku zeveki ubuza kwakhona kwaye kwakhona ukuba ixesha liyakufika nini. Xa umntwana emncinci, kusetyenziswa ngakumbi ukuba simfundisa nantoni na ngokubandakanya imisebenzi kunye nemidlalo. Abantwana batsaleleka ngakumbi kwimisebenzi yokudlala imidlalo kwaye bathanda ukufunda nokukhumbula izinto ngokukhawuleza ixesha elide.
1) Ukusebenzisa iKhalenda:
Kwanokuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukufunda, usenokufunda kwikhalenda. Uya kufunda namagama eveki ngokujonga kwikhalenda. Ungasebenzisa imibala kunye neepeyinti ukubamba ingqalelo yabantwana abancinci kwaye ufundise iintsuku zeveki kubantwana abangekaqala ukuya esikolweni. Unokuzifundisa ngokwahlula phakathi kweentsuku zeveki kunye neempelaveki. Baxelele ukuba kukho iimpelaveki ezimbini kunye neentsuku zeveki ezi-5. Mxelele indlela ezinxibelelana ngayo enye kwenye. Ungayipeyinta iiveki ezibomvu kwaye ezinye zinemibala eyahlukeneyo usebenzisa ukuzonwabisa amaphepha okusebenzela ekhalenda.
2) Chitha ixesha lokwenza izinto zicace:
Zama ukuchitha imizuzu emi-5 ukuya kweli-10 yenkqubo yakho yemihla ngemihla kwaye uhlale nomntwana wakho. Nanini na ufumana ixesha, yenza ikhalenda ibe yinxalenye yesiqhelo sakho. Unokuyilungisa kwaye ubeke ixesha emva kwesidlo sakusihlwa okanye ixesha le-snack. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuphindaphinda kungundoqo. Kufuneka uphindaphinde izinto rhoqo ukuba ufuna ukugcina eso singqisho silungile.
3) Cula iingoma:
Umculo uhlala umnandi kwaye abantwana bayawuthanda umculo. Ungathini ngokubeka iintsuku zeveki kwingoma kwaye ucule kunye nomncinci wakho. Kancinci kancinci uya kumbona ecula yedwa kwaye eqonda malunga nosuku ngalunye kunye nonxibelelwano. Unokusebenzisa ikhalenda ngale njongo kwakhona kwaye umvumele ayenze ngokusekelwe koko akuqwalaseleyo. Ukuba unikela ingqalelo esondeleyo, unokuqaphela ukuba xa uphinda ucula umbongo okanye nayiphi na ingoma phambi kwabantwana bakho, badla ngokuyichola ngokulula nangokukhawuleza. Nantso indlela onokuthi uphumeze ngayo indlela yokufundisa iintsuku zeveki kubantwana abasaqalayo ukuya esikolweni
4) Flip Tshati:
Nika umntwana wakho amakhadi asixhenxe, bhala igama losuku ngalunye uze ucele ukuba afake imibala kwiphepha ngalinye. Yiba nemingxuma emibini yokubetha phezulu kwekhadi ngalinye, yibeke ngokulandelelana kwaye ubeke intambo phakathi komngxuma ngamnye kwaye uyibambe ngokupheleleyo. Ngoku jonga kwaye uyalele umntwana wakho ukuba ajikelezise phambi kweyona ichanekileyo emva kokubuya esikolweni.
5) Buza imibuzo eNxulumene neMihla ebalulekileyo:
Abantwana batsaleleka xa kulindeleke iholide okanye xa eza kuphuma esiya epikinikini okanye esiya kudibana nabahlobo bakhe. Unokwalathisa ingqalelo yakhe ngokusebenzisa iipeyinti zemibala okanye izincamathelisi kwaye umqondise malunga nokuba usondele kangakanani kumhla, zingaphi iintsuku eziseleyo kunye nosuku oluya kuba lulo.
6) Umahluko phakathi kwanamhlanje, ingomso nayizolo:
Izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuba zikhankanye ngelixa ufundisa iintsuku zeveki kumntwana ukucaca phakathi kwanamhlanje, ngomso nayizolo. Sebenzisa isalathisi kwaye uchaze ukuba loluphi usuku lweveki namhlanje, luya kuba yintoni ngomso kwaye yintoni izolo. Uqala ukwenza oku kwaye xa umntwana wakho sele eqhelile, mnike isalathisi uze umbuze ngayo.
7) Odola Amakhadi:
Bhala phantsi iintsuku zeveki kumakhadi ngamnye (unokuyihombisa kunye nesitayile ukuba ufuna ukuyenza ibe nomtsalane). Gxuba kwaye uwaxube ngaphambi kokuba uqale. Ungawulandela lo msebenzi yonke imihla kwaye ucele umntwana wakho ukuba awucwangcise ngokomyalelo ochanekileyo kwaye iya kuba ngumsebenzi omnandi wabantwana nabo.
8) Iintsuku zokuHlala kweVeki:
Oku kunokulandelwa ngokukodwa kwigumbi lokufundela apho itheyibhile nganye inokuba nencam yephepha enegama losuku. Ngoku suku ngalunye vumela umntwana ngamnye atshintshele kolandelayo. Ukuba oku kuba yinkqubo yesiqhelo, baya kukwazi ukukhumbula iintsuku ezinje, โUmntwana ohleli etafileni engaphambili ebhalwe ngoMvulo uphuma kuqala eklasini ngexesha lekhefuโ. Ngale ndlela abantwana baya kujonga ukuba loluphi usuku kwaye balinde ithuba labo. Unokwenza indlela yakho yokuyila ngokuqonda ukuba kuthatha ntoni ukubamba ingqalelo yomntwana wakho kuba umntu ngamnye wahlukile. Ungabhekisa kwiLANGA ngelixa umenza ukuba ankqaye "ngeCawa". Ngokufanayo ungabhekisa kwigama elithi "ON" ngelixa ufundisa ngoMvulo. Wonke umntu unokudala iindlela zakhe kwaye iyahluka ukusuka kumntu ukuya kumntu kunye nobuntu bomntwana. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona ukuguqula amaxesha okusebenzela ukunceda abantwana baqonde ngcono iintsuku zeveki.
Iintsuku zokufundisa zeveki zifundiswa ngokubanzi kwasekuqaleni. Ekuqaleni uthetha nabo kwaye ubenze bafundise ngomlomo kwincoko yemihla ngemihla kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sabantwana baya kufunda ngaloo ndlela kwaye akuyi kufuneka ubeke umgudu omkhulu kuyo.