Uyifundisa Kanjani Ingane Encane Ukwabelana
Ukwabelana kuwumsebenzi oyinselele ngokuvamile ezinganeni ezincane futhi kubalulekile ngokufanayo ekuzenzeni zibe nabangane futhi zibe nokubambisana emisebenzini yansuku zonke yempilo. Indlela yokufundisa ingane encane ukwabelana iyikhwalithi okufanele ithuthukiswe kusukela isencane futhi ingenziwa kangcono kakhulu ngokunikeza ingane yakho isikhathi esiningi nethuba lokuyijwayeza. Kungenziwa ngokubenza babambe iqhaza emisebenzini ehlukene yokudlala kanye nasekufundiseni. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi ingane yakho yasenkulisa ingakakulungeli ukwabelana ngezinto zayo nezinto zayo noma indlela yokufundisa ingane ukwabelana nayo, ungakhathazeki ngalokho futhi kuyinqubo yokufunda engokwemvelo enemizamo encane. Kuzomthatha isikhathi ukuthi ajwayelane nalo mkhuba kwazise izingane le nsizwa ibeka izidingo zazo kuqala kunezabanye kanti nokwabelana kungamcasula. Ukwabelana kuhlobene nokubekezela futhi zombili izinto zisebenza ndawonye. Ungase futhi ubone izingane ezisacathula kanye nezingane ezincane zixabana ngenxa yezizathu ezithathwe noma ezithinta ezinye izinto. Ibalulekile ngoba isiza izingane ukuba zenze abangane futhi zixhumane nabantu kamuva ekuphileni. Uma ucabanga ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lapho ingane ifinyelela enkulisa noma ekunakekelweni kwengane, kuyodingeka ikhethe ukwabelana ngezimfanelo.

Fundisa izingane zakho izibalo ngempumelelo kakhulu ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zemfundo.
Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamatafula esikhathi luwumngane ophelele wenkulisa kanye nezingane zasenkulisa ukuze zifunde. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamathebula wokuphindaphinda luwusizo kakhulu ukufunda amatafula wezingane kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10.
Bafundise Ngokwabelana:
Abazali bayisibonelo ezinganeni zabo futhi balandelwa yibona. Noma ngabe yisiphi isenzo noma amagama owashoyo phambi kwabo, khumbula ukuthi banomqondo oqinile wokubheka futhi noma yini oyenzayo igcinwa ezingqondweni zabo futhi okufanayo kwenzeka ngenkathi ufundisa izingane ukwabelana. Yebo, kufanele ubanikeze amathuba nezenzo zokuzijwayeza. Nazi ezinye izindlela ongakhuthaza ngazo izingane zakho ukuthi zabelane ngezinto nabanye futhi zigqamise ukubaluleka kwazo nezinzuzo zazo: - Zenze ziqaphele izinto ezinhle njengokuthi “umfundi ofunda naye ubenomusa kakhulu ukwabelana ngamathoyizi akhe nabangane”. Kungabenza bacabange ukuthi nabanye bathanda isenzo esinjalo. - Dlala imisebenzi ebandakanya ukwabelana nokubekezela njengokulinda ithuba lakho kuze kube yilapho wonke umuntu eseqedile. - Thola amakhadi noma ukudweba okwenziwe kothisha nabangane. Kufana nokwenza imizamo yakho yenzelwe abantu abakuthandayo nabakukhathalelayo. - Bancome ngenkathi ufundisa izingane ukwabelana uma ubathola bedlala nabanye, babelana ngezinto zabo. – Kholwa, ukwabelana kungaphezu kwezinto ezibonakalayo, kumayelana nemizwa. Udinga futhi ukwabelana ngesikhathi sakho nemizamo futhi. – Khuluma naye ngemizwa yakhe njengokuthi “Ucabangani, umngane wakho ngeke akubuyisele ithoyizi lakho?” noma “Ingabe wesaba ukungalitholi ithuba lakho?” Mtshele uma ekhathazekile ngezinto ezinjalo ukuba ehlise umoya futhi ambonise ukuthi angazicela izinto zakhe ngesizotha uma efuna zibuye.
Kwenze Kujabulise:
Imidlalo yokuncintisana ilungele izingane mayelana nokuthola lowo mqondo wokufuna ukwenza umzamo uthuthuke kuyo kodwa uma uzifundisa ngokwabelana nokwakha lezo zimfanelo, yilapho okufanele umfake khona emidlalweni yokusebenzisana. Bavumele badlale i-jigsaw puzzle ngokuhlanganisa iqembu, badlale i-ludo (kufanele balinde ithuba labo) kanye nemisebenzi efana nalena. Yenza amaqembu futhi ubanike imisebenzi efana nokudweba noma ukwenza amakhadi othisha nabangane, kuzobakhuthaza ukwabelana ngemibono nemibono komunye nomunye.
Hlonipha Impahla Yakhe:
Nakuba ukwabelana kuyisenzo esihle kodwa singabazali nothisha ngenkathi sifundisa izingane ukwabelana, kufanele futhi sabelane ngenhlonipho ezintweni zazo. Uma uthola into ethile njengezingubo, ithoyizi nanoma yiziphi ezinye izinto anazo noma anazo, mbuze ngaphambi kokuyithatha. Esikhundleni sokuthi athi akamane adedele abanye badlale ngayo, funa imvume efana nokuthi “Ungaba nankinga uma udadewenu eyithatha isikhashana, uzoyibuyisela emuva”. Futhi hhayi wena kuphela kodwa qiniseka ukuthi abangane bakhe nezingane zakubo nabo banalenhlonipho ngaphakathi kubo, ngokuqondene nemvume yakhe futhi uqinisekise ukuthi iyobuyiselwa kuye iphephile futhi iphilile. Akugcini lapho, bafundise ukunakekela okwengeziwe kwempahla yabanye.
Hola Ngesibonelo:
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukwabelana ivela kuwe, thatha usizo eqinisweni lokuthi izingane zilalelisisa lokho okwenziwa abazali bazo. Ngakho, qala ngawe. Yiba yisibonelo ezinganeni zakho futhi uzivumele zikubhekisise. Ingxenye yokufundisa izokwenziwa ngale ndlela. Yabelana nabo ngo-ayisikhilimu wakho, amaswidi nezinto. Ngaphambi kokuba ube nanoma yini, qiniseka ukuthi uyababuza ukuthi bangathanda yini ukuba nayo. Kuyoba umkhuba kubo. Hhayi izingane kuphela, buza wonke umuntu ohlezi. Sebenzisa igama elithi ukwabelana ngenkathi wenza kanjalo futhi ubazise ukubaluleka kwalo nomthelela ngokubheka ukuthi uyakwenza. Lowo muzwa abawutholayo lapho bebuzwa abanye ngaphambi kokuba babe nawo uzoba nomthelela kangangokuthi uzobasiza baqonde ukuthi uma bengenza okufanayo, kuzogcina kunomthelela omuhle kwabanye.
Ungalokothi Ujezise Ngokungabelani:
Esigabeni sokuqala sokufundisa, ungase uzizwe unamahloni futhi uthukuthele uma ubuka ingane yakho ikhohlakele futhi inobugovu ngezinye izikhathi. Uma umbona ehlwitha izinto futhi elwela izinto, lokho kungase kukuthukuthelise. Lungiselela izinto ngomqondo ozolile, uma ujezisa noma uthethisa ingane yakho ungayenza ibe nenkani futhi izivikele. Kungaba nzima nakakhulu kuwe ukumenza ajwayelane nokuziphatha ngenye indlela. Kugcine engqondweni ukuthi kunzima ukuthi ingane ibe nalowo muzwa wokunikeza ngezinto zayo kwabanye futhi idedele izinto zayo. Kuzomthatha isikhathi ukuthi athuthukise lo mkhuba. Njengoba ekhula, uzokwamukela lokhu kuziphatha futhi uzobona ushintsho olukhulu ebuntwini bakhe kanye nasekuziphatheni kwakhe. Vele ube eduze nomncane wakho futhi umnikeze isikhathi sakho esiningi nemizamo. Uzobona ukuthi uzivumelanisa kanjani nezimo futhi amunce ubuntu bakho. Vumela ingane yakho encane ibe phakathi kwezingane kusukela esemncane. Makakhe ithemba lakhe phezu kwabanye. Yazi ukuthi ingane yasenkulisa noma ingane encane kakhulu ukuthi ingabelana nabanye ngezinto zayo, ngisho nawe. Njengoba ekhula futhi eqala ukuya esikoleni, uzoba nayo kuye. Kufanele ubekezele futhi unikele ngokusemandleni akho.