Imisebenzi Elula & Ejabulisayo Yomusa Yabafundi Abaqalayo
Kulesi sikhathi sokungaboni ngaso linye lapho ubuxhwanguxhwangu buvamile khona sidinga ukwazi ukubaluleka komusa. Iningi labantu likholelwa ukuthi liyafika futhi likhula ngokuya ngeminyaka nangesikhathi okuyiqiniso ngokwezinga elithile kodwa amandla eliwabeka komunye nomunye kanye nomthelela kukwenza kubaluleke ukufunda kusukela esemncane. Umusa awupheleli nje ekusizeni abanye kodwa uhlobene nesenzo somusa, ukubingelela ekuqaleni, ukwabelana ngezinto kanye nokuba khona kothile. Lesi sihloko sigxile esicini esiyinhloko okungukuthi umusa. I-positivity ekhuthazelelayo ayithinti abanye kuphela kodwa naye futhi.
Ukucabanga ukuthi bazokhula babe abantu abadala abanomusa bebodwa futhi kungani bechitha isikhathi ngento enjalo esikhundleni sokwenza upiyano, izifundo noma esinye isenzo esinengqondo akulungile. Cabanga ukuthi kungaba ngcono kangakanani amahhovisi, amagumbi okufundela nezinye izindawo uma lesi sici sisenziwa kusukela sisebancane. Izinselelo zithuthukisa umuzwa wokugqugquzeleka phakathi kwezingane ukuthi zithathe futhi zisakaze umbono oqondile.
Njengomzali noma uthisha kufanele senze imizamo phezu kwezenzo ezinjalo futhi sibasize baqhubeke nezifundo. Ngezansi kunemisebenzi embalwa yomusa yabafundi abasaqalayo ekhuthaza isimo sengqondo esinomusa nokuba nethemba..
1) Izinto ezinhle:
Lona omunye wemisebenzi yomusa emfushane futhi enomthelela wezingane ophumela ekusakazeni indawo enhle ekilasini. Ungakwazi ngisho nokuqala inkulumo ngayo. Hlanganisa zonke izingane, ungashintsha nezihlalo zazo ngaphambi kokuqala. Banikeze amanothi anamathelayo kanye nemizuzu emi-5 yokubhala into eyodwa enhle ngomlingani wakhe osebhentshini. Batshele ukuthi babhale amagama abo phezulu ephepheni. Ungakwazi futhi ukwengeza imibuzo embalwa uma uhlela ushintsho ngokwesibonelo 'into eyodwa ehamba phambili ngawe' noma kungase kube 'Ngithanda ubuntu bakho ngoba'. Landela ngokubenza bafunde ngokuzwakalayo ekugcineni futhi wazise abanye ngakho. Lokhu ngeke nje kwenze ubuhlobo bakhe naye buqine kodwa futhi kwenze omunye nomunye abone ukubaluleka kwezinto ezincane abangazibali. Kuzoba yithuba lokuthi izingane ziveze imibono yazo mhlawumbe ezingeke ziyisho impilo yazo yonke.

Fundisa izingane zakho izibalo ngempumelelo kakhulu ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zemfundo.
Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamatafula esikhathi luwumngane ophelele wenkulisa kanye nezingane zasenkulisa ukuze zifunde. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamathebula wokuphindaphinda luwusizo kakhulu ukufunda amatafula wezingane kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10.
2) Ibhokisi Lokubonga:
Njengoba abanye abantu benobuntu obunamahloni kusukela ebuntwaneni futhi abakutholi ukhululekile ukusho izinto phambi kwawo wonke umuntu. Imisebenzi yomusa enjalo yabafundi bamabanga aphansi iwukukhuthaza izingane futhi zivule imibono yazo phambi kwawo wonke umuntu. Ibhokisi lokubonga lingamiswa futhi libekwe ngemuva kwekilasi kunamathiselwe iphedi lamanothi anamathelayo. Wonke umfundi okuhlanganisa nothisha bangashiya umlayezo wokubonga ngaphakathi kuyo. Ekupheleni kwesonto wonke umyalezo wawungafundwa ngokuzwakalayo phambi kwekilasi lonke.
3) Funda Izincwadi Ezimayelana Nomusa:
Ukufundisa umusa kubafundi abasaqalayo ngezincwadi kuyindlela ejabulisayo nephumelela kakhulu yokunquma izinzuzo nokwenza izingane zibone umthelela wesimo somusa kwabanye. Faka izincwadi ezinjalo ohlwini lwakho futhi wenze ukuba lifundwe lichaza ukubaluleka komusa kanye nezinzuzo ezinazo phezu komuntu siqu. I-quilt yomusa, yiba nomusa futhi abantu abalungile yonke indawo bangabanye abaningi abakhona.
4) Dumisa Umusa:
Kuningi ukungalungi okusizungezile kulesi sikhathi lapho kukhona abambalwa kakhulu abantu abafaka imizamo yokwenza umuntu azizwe efanelekile. Izingane ezinjalo zifanelwe ukutuswa nomvuzo, okungenzeka kungabi into eningi kodwa ukunconywa ngenothi. Ukubaklomelisa nganoma yisiphi isicaphuno esidumile esikhuthazayo nokutshela incazelo yaso kuwo wonke umuntu kungenye indlela.
5) Imiklamo Enomusa noma Amaphosta:
Kulo msebenzi ungahlukanisa izingane zibe ngamaqembu amancane futhi unikeze ngayinye iphosta nomaka abamibalabala. Batshele ukuthi babeke konke ubuhlakani babo kuyo futhi babhale isisho esinomusa bebodwa noma bakhethe eyodwa ebhalwe ebhodini. Bangathatha imibono kozakwethu futhi basebenze ndawonye. Ekugcineni ziveze zonke ebhodini noma kunoma yiluphi udonga ekilasini ukuze nabanye bathole ugqozi kulo.
6) Izincwadi Zokubonga:
Baningi abantu abasizungezile esikoleni abasebenza ngokuzikhandla ngokwedlulele ngezindlela ezahlukene. Bathola ukwazisa okuncane noma akukho nhlobo futhi kunalokho ngezinye izikhathi baphathwa kabi. Ukufundisa izingane ukuba nomusa kubantu abanjalo nakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Ungasetha umsebenzi kanye nyanga zonke wokudumisa imizamo yabantu abanjalo ngokwenza izingane zibabhalele izincwadi ezikhuthazayo. Imisebenzi enjalo yomusa yezingane igcizelela izingqondo zezingane ukuthi wonke umuntu ozungezile ufanelwe uthando nomusa.
8) Imiklomelo Yomusa:
Nikeza abafundi imivuzo yomusa ngenxa yesimo sabo sengqondo esinomusa kwabanye. Izenzo ezincane ezinjalo zithuthukisa isikhuthazo ezinganeni ukuthi zithathe isenzo esinjalo nazo esikhathini esizayo futhi. Imiklomelo ayibhekiseli ezindondoni kuphela kodwa ingaba yinoma yini encane njengenothi lokwazisa noma ukucaphuna ukuze nje iwagcine eqhubeka ngaleyo ndlela futhi enze abanye babone ukubaluleka kokuphola kanye nomusa.
Kufanele siqaphele ukuthi imisebenzi yomusa yabafundi abasaqalayo ibalulekile njengokufundisa izibalo, isiNgisi nezinye izifundo kubo. Khumbula ukuthi uma ingane ingenayo i-positivity noma izama kangakanani ngeke iphumelele. Ukuziphatha kuvela ekuzilolongeni nasekubhekeni abanye kanye nokugcina ukuthinta okunomusa. Yingakho ukwenza ingane yakho ilandele futhi iqonde ukuthi ungaba kanjani umuntu onomusa kubaluleke kakhulu. Kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ubambe ithuba ukubenza bafunde ukusabalalisa i-positivity nxazonke. Ngokwenza kanjalo uzoqaphela futhi uzwe ushintsho olubonakalayo endaweni yekilasi kanye nokuziphatha kwabanye. Hhayi ngokufundisa kuphela, ungaphinda unxenxe imidlalo yomusa kubafundi abasaqalayo ukwenza ukufunda kujabulise futhi kube nomthelela omkhulu.