Ukufundisa Izingane Ukuzibophezela:
Wonke umzali kulo mhlaba ufuna ingane yakhe ibe nomthwalo wemfanelo ukuze iqonde imisebenzi yayo. Kuthiwani uma ingane ngayinye isikhulile njengomuntu omdala okwazi ukuzimela? Umhlaba ubungaba indawo engcono kakhulu yokuhlala kuyo. Ngakho umbuzo uwukuthi kanjani? Indlela yokukhulisa izingane ezinomthwalo wemfanelo? Kumayelana nokubenza bazizwe ukuthi igalelo labo elihle yilokho okudingwa abantu abaseduze kwakho nendawo ezungezile. Kumelwe bazi ukuthi noma yimuphi umsebenzi abawenzayo noma abahlela ukuwenza, kumelwe wenziwe ngawo wonke amakhono angcono kakhulu abangawenza.
Uma umuntu ngamunye endlini eba nomthwalo wemfanelo futhi eqonda uhlangothi lwakhe lwendima, ngeke kube nengcindezi engaka kumuntu oyedwa. Akulungile uma sicabanga ukuthi yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya iwumthwalo kamama, Cha. Ilungu ngalinye kufanele libe nengxenye futhi lenze izinto zibe ngcono futhi yilokho okuza nomthwalo wemfanelo nokuqonda. Nikeza izingane igunya lokuthatha izinqumo njengoba njengengxenye yomndeni zinelungelo lokuza nemibono yazo futhi kufanele ulalele. Ngezansi eminye imibono nezihluthulelo ezingasiza ekuqaliseni inqubo yokufundisa izingane ukuzibophezela:
Fundisa izingane zakho izibalo ngempumelelo kakhulu ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zemfundo.
Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamatafula esikhathi luwumngane ophelele wenkulisa kanye nezingane zasenkulisa ukuze zifunde. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamathebula wokuphindaphinda luwusizo kakhulu ukufunda amatafula wezingane kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10.
1) Hlanza Ukungcola Ngokwakho:
Qala ngokwenza ingane yakho ihileleke nawe ngenkathi ufundisa izingane ukuzibophezela. Mnikeze isipontshi kanye nawe ukuze ahlanze phansi ngisho noma engakwazi ukwenza kanjalo. Izingane zifuna ngempela ukukusiza futhi kufanele uzifundise ukuthi zingakwenza kanjani ukuze uzenze zizenzele ngokwazo. Uma ingane yakho encane ichithe ingilazi yamanzi, mtshele ukuthi kulungile singakuhlanganisa lokhu bese siqala. Ngesikhathi eya esikoleni mfundise ukubeka izingubo zakhe wakhumula endaweni efanele kanye nama-slippers akhe. Kumele umchazele ngokubaluleka kwayo ukuthi angeke afune izinto uma esebuyile.
2) Bavumele Bazenzele Ngokwabo:
Noma uzobe wenza into efanayo futhi. Lowo muzwa wokwaneliseka wokuthi babekwe icala lanoma yimuphi umsebenzi othile uyisihluthulelo. Bafuna ukuhola kukho konke. Kufanele uyikhuthaze ngokubavumela ngokwesibonelo ukuthi bahlanze iwindi bebodwa. Kuthatha isikhathi esiningi njengoba kufanele ukwenze konke futhi kodwa uzofunda kanjalo. Uma ingane inganikezwa igunya lokwenza okuthile ngokwayo, ihlale ingabaza ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo futhi ingabi naso isibindi ngakho.
3) Nikeza Izinketho:
Bayisihluthulelo sendlela yokufundisa ingane ukuthi ithwale umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zayo ngenkathi yabela izingane imisebenzi njengomsebenzi noma umsebenzi, ibuze ukuthi yini efuna ukuyenza. Uma ngokwesibonelo efuna ukuhlanza ikamelo lakhe kunendawo yokuphumula, mvumele akwenze. Ungenza konke okusemandleni akhe uma enza noma yini ngokuthanda kwakhe futhi bekungeke kumenze azizwe sengathi ubewenza umsebenzi okufanele wenziwe. Makabe nesibopho semisebenzi yakhe yasekhaya.
4) Ungalindeli Ukuba Aphelele:
Izingane kufanele zifunde umqondo oyinhloko wokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo kunokuba zithuthukise amakhono azo okwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Kungafundwa ngokuzijwayeza kodwa okugxilwe kakhulu wukuthi banekhono kangakanani ukwenza imisebenzi yabo. Uma kuthiwa akadlale inkundla okubalulekile wukuthi wenza lokho acelwa ukuba akwenze kunokuba akhathazeke ngokuthi umhlabathi ucwebe kangakanani nokuthi ubukeka kanjani.
5) Ungenzi Okuningi Kakhulu:
Ukwenzela izingane zethu izinto ezincane kuyasijabulisa futhi sicabanga ukuthi sizinika konke okusemandleni ethu futhi lokho kusenza sanelise. Kuhle ukuba nabo ngokusemandleni ethu futhi senze imisebenzi ndawonye kodwa ukufundisa ingane isibopho ngokuqinisekile akusho ukuyenzela imisebenzi eyisisekelo. Uma ingane ikwazi ukumtholela amanzi, ungayenzeli yona. Ukubenza babone ukuthi wonke umsebenzi wenziwa nguwe ekupheleni kosuku kungadala lokho kunganaki nokuncika kubo.
6) Misa Umjikelezo Nesakhiwo:
Inqubo efanele ehleliwe noma isakhiwo sinokubaluleka okukhulu kuyo yonke ingxenye yempilo. Ingane elandela imisebenzi yayo yansuku zonke nezikhathi ngokuvumelana nayo nendlela ekwazi ngayo ukulandela ibonisa ukuthi umuntu unomthwalo wemfanelo kangakanani. Akwenzeki vele ukulandela yonke into njengomuntu othanda ukuphelela futhi yikho okuthatha isikhathi kodwa kuyafaneleka. Izinto ezincane ezinjalo zivula izindlela zemizamo emikhulu yesikhathi esizayo.
7) Ungajahi Ukuxazulula Ubunzima:
Kubalulekile ngenkathi ufundisa izingane umthwalo wemfanelo wokuma ngaso sonke isikhathi ohlangothini lwezingane zakho kuzo zonke izinyathelo zokuphila, ube nazo futhi uzikhuthaze kodwa ukuzidonsa nokuxazulula zonke izinkinga akukuhle. Msize aphume ekwesabeni nasekuhlulekeni kudingekile. Kufanele baqhamuke nesixazululo bebodwa kunokuthi wena wenze njalo. Uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi esikhathini esizayo lapho kuzomele azithathele izinqumo futhi yikho okufanele azilungiselele.
8) Fundisa Imiphumela:
Umuntu kufanele azi ukuthi izenzo zabo ezingase zibe umphumela wazo. Sonke isenzo sinemithelela emibili, omuhle kanye nomubi. Umuntu kufanele akwazi kokubili lapho ethatha noma yisiphi isinqumo sokusho noma sokwenza okuthile. Kuhle ukukholelwa emiklomelweni nasezimpumelelweni zomzimba kodwa ukuba nekhono elakhelwe eceleni yikho okufanele kubaluleke kakhulu.
9) Mfundise Ukubhekana Nokungabi Nesibopho:
Kungokwemvelo ukuthi abanye abantu baphiwe ukuthinta okunesibopho ngokwemvelo. Noma kunjalo, baningi abanye abadinga ukufunda ngokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo futhi kuyenzeka ukwenza njalo. Uma ingane ikhohlwa ukuhlanganisa zonke izinto zayo endaweni ethile, yenze ifunde ukubhekana nakho. Mcele ukuthi akuqoqe konke njengohlu lokuhlola engqondweni yakhe. Ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukuphatha izinto zakhe naye.
10) Unganiki Izinto Eziningi Kakhulu:
Ukufundisa izingane imithwalo yemfanelo akusho ukumthwalisa kanzima ecabanga ukuthi lokho kungenza ukufunda kusheshe. Kuthatha isikhathi futhi kuzothatha isikhathi. Izinto eziningi ezinqwabelene zandisa amathuba okuntula intshisekelo nokubalekela. Khumbula ukuthi okuncane kuningi futhi noma ephumelela ukwenza omunye wemisebenzi yakhe eminingi ngesikhathi, kuyinqubekelaphambili enhle.
Funda umehluko phakathi kokulalela nokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo. Ukunikeza ingane ubunikazi bomsebenzi othile kusho ukuyinikeza umthwalo wemfanelo wokuphumelela nokwehluleka kwawo. Ukuze kufundiswe izingane ukuzibophezela kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ingane imi kuphi nokuthi ingadinga imizamo engakanani ukuze ifunde. Lokhu kuyokuholela ekubeni ‘umvumele indlela yakhe’ yokwenza izinto futhi ungalindeli ukuphelela ekuqaleni.