Ukubaluleka Kokuthuthukiswa Kolimi Ezinganeni Ezincane
Njengoba ingane ithuthuka ikhono layo lokukhula, ukufunda nokuthuthuka ukuze ichume futhi ikhule. Phakathi kweminyaka engu-2-5, izingane ziqala ngokwandisa ukuphimisela kwazo amagama. Basho imishwana esikhundleni semisho efanele futhi yilapho ubuchopho busebenza kakhulu futhi bukwazi ukumunca izinto. Bavame ukukhuluma imisho engaphelele noma amagama noma ngisho namagama angahambisani. Yebo abanawo umqondo wohlelo lokubeka amagama. Njengoba bekhula, bakhuluma njengabantu abadala nalokho abakuzwa ngakubo.
Ukuthuthukiswa kolimi ebuntwaneni kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokukhula kwengane. Ukuthuthukiswa kolimi lwakuqala kumenza akwazi ukuxhumana futhi aveze imizwa yakhe. Ukwazi ukuqonda nokusebenzisa ulimi yikho okubalulekile mayelana nokubamba amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga kanye nokuxhumana Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthuthukisa nokuqalisa izigaba zokukhula kolimi ebuntwaneni iwukuxoxa okuningi ndawonye ngezinto abakhomba kuzo, bhebha noma uyakuthanda. Lezi ngezinye zezindlela zokuqalisa ukuthuthukiswa kolimi ezinganeni ezincane.

Fundisa izingane zakho izibalo ngempumelelo kakhulu ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zemfundo.
Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamatafula esikhathi luwumngane ophelele wenkulisa kanye nezingane zasenkulisa ukuze zifunde. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lwamathebula wokuphindaphinda luwusizo kakhulu ukufunda amatafula wezingane kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10.
1) Khuluma Nabo:
Khuluma nengane yakho futhi ukhuthaze izingxoxo ezinde. Lapho ukhuluma kakhulu nabo, yilapho bezokwazi khona ukubheka futhi banqume imishwana eyiyo nokuthi isetshenziswa kanjani. Uma ingane yakho ibhodla, phendula futhi uphendule kulokho ekushoyo. Lapho ukhuluma kakhulu naye, yilapho ethola khona umbono ocacile wolimi.
2) Phendula Ingane Yakho:
Njengoba ingane ikhula iba namandla futhi ilindele impendulo yakho kulokho ekushoyo. Ake siqale lapho esekela ukushukuma komzimba ukuze enze abanye baqonde. Noma kunjalo, kufanele uphendule kukho, uma evuma ngekhanda ucabange futhi asho ngokuthi CHA. Uma ekhomba phezu kwanoma yini phendula njengokuthi, 'Ufuna leli bhere', 'lapho uya khona'. Kuzobasiza ukuthi bafunde okwengeziwe ngebinzana ngalinye namagama ngisho noma bengazi ngaphambili. Eqhubekela phambili lapho beqala ukuxhuma amabinzana, bazoba nengxoxo nawe isibonelo 'Ngiyothenga', uqala ukuthuthukisa umqondo wokuthi ahlanganisa kanjani amagama akhe umusho. Udinga ukubenza bafunde futhi balungise imishwana njalo lapho beyisho kabi futhi kuyisinyathelo esiyisisekelo ekuthuthukisweni kolimi emfundweni yezingane ezisakhula. Lapho isikhulile futhi iqala ukukhuluma, phendula amazwi ayo futhi ugweme amafushane. Ufunda igama elisha usuku nosuku. Uzowuqonda umehluko phakathi kwamagama afana nelithi 'lakho' nelithi 'lami'. Uzoqonda kakhulu ngezwi lakho ukuthi ujabule noma udangele. Bazoqala ukuqonda ukuthi uma ubenza ukuxubha amazinyo, badinga ukuya embhedeni.
3) Ukukhuluma Kwansuku Zonke:
Khuluma ngempilo yakho yansuku zonke, luhambe kanjani usuku lwakho nakho konke. Emva kwalokho babuze ukuthi belunjani usuku lwabo futhi benzeni. Inhloso ukusebenzisa amagama amaningi amasha kumongo. Noma ekuthola kunzima ukuqonda akunandaba ngoba uzogcina ekwenzile njengoba ekhula. Lapho ingane yakho ikhuluma nganoma yisiphi isimo noma indlela ezizwa ngayo, yikhuthaze ukuba ikhulume ngedlule noma ngekusasa. Wayezothuthukisa ukuqonda indlela yokubhekisela kuyo. Isibonelo khuluma naye ngokuthi ufuna ukuya kuphi nokuthi zithini izinhlelo zakhe ngempelasonto ezayo. Lapho ufika ekhaya uvela esidlweni sakusihlwa noma ukuvakasha, khuluma ngakho.
4) Funda Nengane Yakho:
Ukuthuthukiswa kolimi ebuntwaneni kufanele kugxile ekufundeni okubandakanya amagama emishweni ehlukene anezimo ezahlukahlukene ukuze kuqondwe ngokucacile amagama ahlukene. Ngisho noma kuyincwadi yendaba ngaphambi kokulala noma incwadi eyinkimbinkimbi, inhloso ukwenza ingane ibambe amagama amasha kanye nokuqonda kwayo. Ingane yakho ingase ixhume kulokho okusencwadini futhi kuwusizo kakhulu. Xoxani ngezithombe ezingaphakathi nikhulume ngazo. Khomba amagama uma uwasho bese ume kancane ukuchaza incazelo yawo enganeni.
5) Mbonise Amazwi Ezintweni:
Uma uvakashela isitolo noma uyoshayela nezingane zakho, sivame ukuhlangana nezibhengezo ezimibalabala nxazonke. Izinto ezinjalo zidonsa ukunaka kwezingane ezincane futhi ziyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuzenza zazi futhi zijwayelane namagama ahlukene. Bafunda ukuthi amagama aphrintiwe nakhulunywayo ahluka kanjani. Khumbula ukuthi izingane zifunda kangcono ngenkathi zidlala futhi ngokusebenzisana okungajwayelekile.
6) Nikeza Isikhathi Sokufunda Nokuhlola:
Ungajahi njalo uzame ukwenza izingane zifunde ngamandla. Ngeke nje kubenze babalekele ukufunda ekuqaleni kodwa futhi bangabi nentshisekelo kukho. Njengoba zikhula, nokufunda kuyathuthuka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Vele wenze ukufunda kanye nengxoxo evamile kube umkhuba ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokuthola amagama amasha. Bazofunda ngesikhathi sabo.
Amakhono olimi ayadingeka ukuze kufundwe kanye nokuxhumana futhi yilokho okwenza ukuthuthukiswa kolimi ebuntwaneni kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma kuba ngcono kunamathuba amaningi okuthi ingane ikwazi ukufunda esikoleni. Imithetho yolimi ithwala ukuhlangana kwamagama, ukuwasebenzisa ngendlela efanele futhi ukwazi ukuqonda incazelo yawo emshweni nakuwodwa. Izinsana nazo zinezingxoxo. Bayakujabulela ukukwenza futhi bakubheke njengomsebenzi futhi yilokho abakufunda kakhulu. Njengoba izingane zikhula ziqala ukufunda ngale kwamagama futhi ziqale ukuzixhuma ukuze zakhe imisho. Baqala ukufunda imithetho yohlelo lolimi. Esikhundleni sokuxhumana ngamagama, bayawahlanganisa akhe imisho. Ukuphimisela kuba ngcono ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nokufunda futhi yilapho izingane zithola khona imizamo eyengeziwe kothisha nabazali ukuze zifunde. Baqala ngokwenza amagama afaneleke emshweni.